oaks Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Well, I'm 41, So would this be an appropriate point to inject some balance into the thread and say that older women are hot, too?
grkBoy Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Older guys have cars instead of scooters. I actually want a scooter! I saw them all over Europe, and loved it.
D-Lish Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 So would this be an appropriate point to inject some balance into the thread and say that older women are hot, too? This would be an appropriate time! When I go out with my HS school friends- 2 are married with kids. the other is married without kids, and the other is single me no kids. The 2 with children are haggard and have let themselves go big time (tons of weight gain and letting the grey hair take over). One girl, a girl that most considered to be one of the hottest girls in our HS had her kids, chopped off her hair in a manner that makes her look like she's ready to enter the army as a male, and has put on 80lbs. The two of us without children still pay attention to fashion, grooming, weight, etc.
madjac74 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 I am 38 in my avatar and 39 in the other pic- but shhhh, I do use botox (in moderation) I'd be open to dating an older man, but at my age I find men 45-50 have a completely different outlook on life. Wealth doesn't attract me and I don't need the security because I already have it. The older men I've met have usually had too many obligations to their ex wive's and kids- which is fine, but not my thing. I think when you're younger- in your early 20's, it's different- older men (say under 30) can be attractive because of their stability and maturity. So are you a puma or a cougar?
D-Lish Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 So are you a puma or a cougar? I'm probably a cougar I guess. What is the difference? I've never in my life (over the age of 25) chased after a guy, and the term "cougar" seems to be associated with being aggressive in chasing younger men- I have never done that. They seek me out and I decide to engage or not.
madjac74 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 (edited) I'm probably a cougar I guess. What is the difference? I've never in my life (over the age of 25) chased after a guy, and the term "cougar" seems to be associated with being aggressive in chasing younger men- I have never done that. They seek me out and I decide to engage or not. IDK I think cougars have hairy vaginas. Haha jk jk! I think a cougar is in her 40's and a Puma in her 30's. I imagine 50's must be a sabre tooth tiger Edited September 5, 2011 by madjac74
D-Lish Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 IDK I think cougars have hairy vaginas. Haha jk jk! I think a cougar is in her 40's and a Puma in her 30's. I imagine 50's must be a sabre tooth tiger Oh... That's weird. I haven't had one hair on my body since probably 2005. I guess I am a cougar then- minis the hairy vagina and aggressive pursuit. Guys in their 40's seeking much younger women- we call "Manthers""
tigressA Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 (edited) I actually used to be incredibly creeped out by the mere idea of dating someone even a year or two older than me. Since I started dating 5 years ago, however, I have almost exclusively dated guys 1 or more years older. It wasn't deliberate; it was just that way. My BF is 30 to my 24 years. I don't think there's anything particularly attractive about older guys. The oldest guys I've dated didn't even look their age; they looked much closer to my age. Edited September 5, 2011 by tigressA
FitChick Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 It's been my experience that something happens to a women in their late twenties. I suspect it has to do with the ticking clock and usually they are on starting on the downside of their looks. Where do you live -- in the boondocks? I threw my biological clock out of the window. Women in large metropolitan areas look better and better with time. We know and use all the movie stars' tricks. Perhaps it also has to do with education and economic class. The older men I've met have usually had too many obligations to their ex wive's and kids- which is fine, but not my thing. I'm finding that when a man in his 50s has young children, it's usually the result of a second or third marriage. Not a good dating risk. I'm looking for someone with no kids or whose kids are self-supporting. Less drama at home.
Gironbachs Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 Oh... That's weird. I haven't had one hair on my body since probably 2005. I guess I am a cougar then- minis the hairy vagina and aggressive pursuit. Guys in their 40's seeking much younger women- we call "Manthers"" I don't know, I kinda take offense tpmthis. I'm 42, and the girl I'm seeing is 24. It wasn't a deliberate thing, me seeking out a significantly younger woman, it just happened that way. The age difference has never been an issue for us, why should it be a problem fr anyone else, or a subject of ridicule?
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