stressed7 Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 (edited) Hi, So this ex CW with whom I had short A, who is not at my work anymore, fixed a lunch date with other ex-colleague. She mentioned her not to let me know that they are meeting, but this colleague is my friend and she let me know anyhow. Felt sad that she wants to meet others from work but not me. Sucked it up After the lunch I asked my colleague how did it go and she said, it was fine and the ex A girl did ask about me and said she is waiting to hear from me and that she was sure I would contact her and ask her to meet. Surprisingly, she mentioned to this colleague to let me know that they both met for lunch. After hearing all this I could not contain myself and sent her a message asking her how is she, she replied she is doing good and how am I. I then asked her if she has time to meet, and she replied after 4 hours that she does not want to meet me ever. If ever in life she would like to see me she would contact me herself. I am feeling so hurt and sad by this reply. Also why did she make sure that I knew they both met for lunch. Wasn't it sadist to rub it in. I feel so sad, and I want my life back. Why is this hurting more than regular breakups. I don't feel like getting up from bed or going to work. I will lose my job if I continue to be this irresponsible at work like the past 10 days of NC. Why I broke the NC, why ?? Edited September 3, 2011 by stressed7
East7 Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Stressed, she doesn't want to do anything with you, period! She almost hates you, what more do you expect from her? Breaking NC was a dumb move with someone who clearly doesn't give a **** about you. Don't listen what people say. If she wanted to see you, she is a big girl, she doesn't need other people's help. Accept that she is gone ! Focus on your work and learn from this experience.
wannabdone Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Sounds like to me that shes evil. She set it up and knew that you would contact her with what she said. Commented to you asking her how she is and then as soon as you opened up and asked to see her , she was a bitch. EVIL, EVIL, EVIL!!!! Game playing is not cool. I'm sorry you are hurting. I really am. Don't contact her again. She is simply not worth it at all.
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