Coupedriver Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 I dont get it..WHY THIS GIRL..!?!?!?! I was married for 8 years and knew it was time to leave...even after several relationships I knew when it was time...WHY this girl..!?!??!?!??! WHY CANT I WALK AWAY..?!?!?!??! WHY all of the pain..?!?!? WHY do I have this feeling I cant get rid of that this is REALLY the girl for me..?? Even when I was married that FEELING was never in me...NEVER.I want to fight for her....NEVER fought for anything and have this feeling I NEED to fight to prove it..to prove WE are BOTH worth it to each other....I wish I knew how to explain it....AM I wrong..? Reaching for something..? Cant except it..?? I can BUT that nagging feeling WONT leave me...
Nohbody Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 When I left my wife, I had absolutely no doubt in my mind that I was doing the right thing. When the girl I was most recently with left me... I asked myself many of the same questions. Maybe because it wasn't up to us. Maybe because we really loved these people, but they stopped loving us. Maybe it sucks to be rejected. I don't know. I do know that asking why is just going to make you feel worse. You can puzzle this out later, once your emotions have settled and it's not so chaotic. But I honestly don't think there is a why. Whatever you come to won't be the truth - it'll just be good enough to get you through. And I think that's the best we can hope for.
ConfusedT Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 exactly. i think asking why why why is only more hurtful! we may never know, but until you are emotionally healed, you probably cant see the situation for what it is/was/wont ever be. we all do things we dont want to but that is the beauty of it, we can control our actions, our emotions (although more difficult) can be handled as well once we get into the right state of mind. hope youre feeling better!!
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