mike588 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 My now ex girlfriend broke up with me 5 weeks ago to go back with her ex boyfriend. Were both 45. We dated 10 months, they dated 15 months.I treated her very well and she knew I deeply love her, made her feel special etc. etc.Our sex life was great, not just my side, really, I know. She broke up with him 6 months before we connected. She told me numerous times they fought alot, he wasn't there for her, he was (distant) and no sex towards the latter stage before the breakup. It's been only 5 weeks since she dumped we. Also no children involved. Question, what should I expect? Do ya think she may want to get back together once and if she sees it's the same old crap with him again? I really don't want her back, just curious. Thanx.
wilsonx Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 My advice to you is let it go, its not a rebound. Its going to be a never ending cycle of hurt if you do not let it go and keep chasing it and allowing it to come back in your life. The best way for these patterns to end is for you to end it yourself. You have to understand that what she told you as to the cause of the breakup doesn't necessarily mean it was the honest truth. You were the shoulder for her to cry on and lean her head on and complain to. If anything you were her rebound to him. Find someone better for yourself. There are plenty of awesome people out there that have standards and wont treat you like this.
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