beenburned Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 What do you think should be done when the FWS won't quit pining away for "what could have been with FOW"? I think they should be forced to leave the marriage, in order to fully realize their dream of being/living with the OW. 1
KathyM Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Personally, I would never want to keep a husband that was in love with somebody else, or wanted somebody else. That would be heartbreaking to live with someone and know that they want someone else instead. Of course, I'd never stay in a marriage if my husband cheated either. I don't see how BSs can cope with staying with a man whose feelings and desires are with another woman.
Memphis Raines Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 What do you think should be done when the FWS won't quit pining away for "what could have been with FOW"? I think they should be forced to leave the marriage, in order to fully realize their dream of being/living with the OW. I think they need to be served with divorce papers, and they should be the ones to leave the home.
thomasb Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 What do you think should be done when the FWS won't quit pining away for "what could have been with FOW"? I think they should be forced to leave the marriage, in order to fully realize their dream of being/living with the OW. I would tell him not to let the door hit him where the good Lord split him!
Author beenburned Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 I think a lot of these affairs are mostly fantasies. After all ,you can't really get to know someone very well spending a limited amount of time together. And especially when that time does NOT include real life chores and responsibilities. Don't you think most MM/MW that leave their marriages for the affair partner don't make it in the long run?
martyjones47 Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 (edited) I think a lot of these affairs are mostly fantasies. After all ,you can't really get to know someone very well spending a limited amount of time together. And especially when that time does NOT include real life chores and responsibilities. Don't you think most MM/MW that leave their marriages for the affair partner don't make it in the long run? You are right, but the cheaters hold onto the fantasies and are willing to hurt everyone else for that outside shot of things working out. In my experience the cheating spouse is willing to risk everything and MIGHT come to his/her senses often only after seeing if the fantasy is going to work as real. Then even if the fantasy turns into a sad reality, cheating spouse then spends time mourning/pining for the "relationship" with the OW/OM. Edited September 3, 2011 by martyjones47
flyaway Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 most marriages or relationships with the OW or OM dont work out, from what ive seen. if they cheat with you, they will cheat on you! people cheat because they lack integrity and things are going poorly in their marriage. just hopping along to the first thing that comes up isnt good and wont solve anything in the long run.
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