Desensitized Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Guys, I need help. I feel like I'm letting myself down; on top of that, I feel like I'm messing up big time with this girl! I've known her for about 6 days, and I feel like I'm rushing things with her. Actually, I know I'm rushing things with her. She told me yesterday that she thinks I'm cute, and that, she can't wait for our date. That made me feel good. But, when I went to make a move on her today (I just went to grab her hand) she told me that she wants to get to know me better and that she's a very reserved person; if I could respect her wishes and wait to see where things go after our first date next week. She doesn't seem to be comfortable with me when there are other people with her, but when we're alone, she's perfectly comfortable. I was sitting with her at the universities' cafeteria, and we barely talked because there were other people there. I texted her and asked her if we could talk in private for a bit after we were done eating. She texted me back saying, "why?" lol. I don't know, I feel like i'm going to screw things up. My last relationship was dysfunctional as hell, and, i don't want a repeat of that. This girl actually seems perfectly normal, but I feel like I'm the one that's going to end up ruining it if I can't take my time with her. Bottom line is: she's told me that she's interested in me/thinks i'm cute, etc. But, i still think that she's not? What's wrong with me? My friends tell me to be patient; I know they're right. It's just hard... I guess I just want to make her mine before someone else comes along in the picture? That could be it too. She's beautiful, funny, and smart. We're both majoring in Biochem, so that's pretty cool. I don't know, I come off as confident, but in reality, i'm really not. My own insecurities will be my downfall.
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