OCCDAVE Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Had a date last night and here is how it went.we met at a small cafe but due to both of us being late the place was about to close .we then went to a local pub.we sat down and talked while we had some food.didnt notice till the end of the night we had spent 2 hours in there.there were silent moments but for the most part it went well mixed with alot of laughing.she rubbed my arm few times when i told a joke but i didnt think much of it.we go for a walk after again more touching by her in a more flirty way near my backside heh.she then goes to hold my hand which took me by surprise then we held hands the rest of the night.finally its time to say goodbye i ask her can i see you again she said for sure.she started biting her lips and i said eh here goes went for it we made out for awhile.i have yet to text her or call her what should my next move be.
Cee Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 That sounds like a great first date. I suggest you call her in a couple of days to ask her out on another date. I wouldn't bother with sending her an ambiguous text that says, "What's up?" I would save texting for when there is a dating relationship established.
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 Glad i read this reply i was about to text her.question about the few day rule does it give a better chance at a second date instead of texting right away or would that make me look bad
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 So whens a good day to contact her and how i go about it
Cee Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 It sounds like she was pretty eager so I don't think it's too soon to call her over the weekend to set up the next date. If you live in the US, asking her to a BBQ or party over Labor Day would be a good date idea. This woman sounds like she's good at helping you along, so simply call her and say you'd like to see her again and ask what day is good. I don't think you need us for too much advice. You did fine without us on your date. Have fun.
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 Well i couldnt wait and called her bout 5pm when i was off work.i was hoping she picked up but no such luck.i remember she said she had alot to do this weekend so will see meh.
Cee Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Ball's in her court now. I would think she should return your call sometime over the weekend. Try not to worry about it until Monday. If she hasn't called by then, I think she's not interested or maybe has something else going on that makes her unavailable.
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 I was thinking the same i put myself out there now her turn.im gonna give it tuesday if nothing then its not happening.ill cross my fingers for the best sigh
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