bofferman Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Going on a date with my ex of three months tonight after dating for 5 years... We have been back in contact for about a week and have hung out a few times this week sex on one occasion. I told her we are going on a date tonight and she happily accepted. My reservations are that when we hang out and have a few drinks she says the nicest things and talks about eventually getting back together. btw she broke up with me saying she needed space... i know she has met a few guys and still talks to them dont know to what extent there relationships are. Anyway I am a little guarded because i dont want to hurt again and regress back to where i was post breakup.. Do i put it out there tonight that i am not interested in being friends or do i keep it cool and work on getting her back indirectly... or do i go back to NC after the date and she if she comes pursuing me... Any help I am at a crossroads and dont want to mess this up...not for her but for me.
NordicStripes Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 One thing: if she's the one that broke up with you, it's not you who should be doing the work to try and getting her back. If she wants you back then make her work for it. Don't be a doormat!
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