njzillest Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 I just put my relationship with my GF/FWB of a few years on no contact. We both are are going to college (less than 20 min away from eachother.) We met up the other day after not seeing eachother for a week or so. She said that she did not want to have sex with me but wanted to remain close friends. (we are both young, and fear comittment. she too is a virgin and wants to go out.) Given my feelings of fear and angeri proposed that and put our relationship on no contact for a little bit. She was reluctant to it, but at the time it seemed likt it was the only resolution we could come to (being that i did not just wanna be a very close friend.) We both still have feelings for eachother, and I feel like we both are not ready to commit . Given some time apart (approximatly 5 days- i needed time to straighten out many other things in my life), I have realised that I want to be her friend(my other needs can be met), and I want to open up that line of communication. I feel like i did wrong in closing all contact. i love her she loves me but its not the right time. what should i do? how long should i wait? was i wrong in what i did? .. any suggestions would help. thanks. I want to be her friend, but dont know how to say it. Was I wrong to go
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