joiner16 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago. We saw each other for a few weeks after the initial break up then I went out one night with my friends and she obviously didnt like that. We have been in no contact for all of that time bar 1 occasion where she asked for my address to send my mail but I had not moved in to my new place at the time so I asked lets just quickly meet up and you can give it to me and she said she was busy but will another time. Fair enough so I told her to send it to my aunty’s house which she said she would give me next time. I think she was trying to see if I had moved in to my own place. I tried to call her last night as its been a month since that conversation and I would like my mail as it is about college but she did not pick up or return my call. Also she knows the importance of my mail why has she not sent it to at least my aunty's house? I’m still in love with this girl and miss her everyday. I was talking to my sister yesterday and she said there were still photos of me and my ex together some of which we are kissing still tagged on facebook. I never go on facebook so I was unaware of these photos being on there. What does it me if they are still on there? Is it a sign she misses me? I also have some stuff at her house and by the looks of it in the same place as where I left it which is in full view in the room. I would have thought normally that would be the first thing that someone would get rid of as you would see it everyday. I know if I had any of my ex stuff in my room it would definitely go straight away! I don’t know what the next step is or what to think or feel Any advice would be very much appreciated!
Zaphod B Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Maybe she just hasn't thought about the photograph and the things? An oversight? I know I had such an oversight. I hadn't gone through my photograph collection and removed all my pics of my ex. It was very embarassing when I sat down with my new girlfriend and we were going through them.
Author joiner16 Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 She is a pretty big facebook user so im sure she knows they are there! My stuff all hangs up in her room so she would see it everyday! I just dont know what means!
silly_panda Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Hey... Sorry if this kinda sound a bit not nice to hear... Sometimes, people just don't bother about these things... Photo and all... If they don't really take their time to really look at it or remember it, they won't really notice it... So they won't feel anything even if it's there... I'm not saying this applies for everyone... And I don't know what kinda person your ex is and how deep her feeling is for you... This is just my humble opinion... But take it this way... Whether she delete those or not, it's none of your business... Stop thinking about it... The point is... She let you go... You should let her go too... On your college stuff, yes, she knows it's important to you... But now both of you are not together, so you are not THAT important to her anymore... So she won't really bother bout your college stuff anymore (this is just my opinion)... If she really care for you, she would have return it rite away... This just shows how much she 'care' for you... Get everything settle with her, get her out of your life... Go NC (NC is not for you to make her miss you, it is for you to heal)...
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