I don't know what to think anymore!

[shayla]

My nasty break up was 8 months ago. I still have my moments of anger, but for the most part, I'm over it.

 

I met someone in January 2011, 2 months after the breakup and less than a week after ex married the other woman.

 

He and I have gotten along very well, he has done many loving things and we spend most of our free time together. We have been exclusive since a month into our relationship, and he has been a good boyfriend to me.....but it gets a little strange, and I don't know what to make of this. I need some unbiased opinions.

 

Every Thursday night we go out to karaoke. It's a blast. But when we have more than one drink, he starts telling me that he has two female friends that he's known for years, that there is nothing sexual going on between them, and that he doesn't throw his friends away. This is something that I have not asked him to do, but he seems to always tell me this. Then also whenever he speaks to one of them, he always tells me every single detail about it. Also he has a job that has him on call. He can go through periods when he gets several calls while we are out together. He never walks away when he's talking or anything like that, it just gives me pause after the third call....part of me feels skittish because of the relationship before this one, and I don't want to be unfair to him.

 

But I'm not going to allow this man or any other to fu*k me up in a bad relationship either.

 

Any help with this would be appreciated.

[channy3418]

Trust yourself and your inner-mind. that is how we will all become stronger. I remember answering my own questions when I had doubts and now look here I am sitting here wondering why did not I not listen to myself. LOVE IS BLIND when you don't love yourself first and trust yourself.

[ConfusedT]

hmmm, from a third party perspective, it screams red flag and guilty conscience.

 

trust your women's intuition. it will never fail you if you really open your heart and listen to it.