GgirlBgirl Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 So the dream was set during some really big state fair. I was taking a bus to o e of the venues. I get an email from my ex with all the events he was going to be at out of nowhere. I struggle on what to reply and settle on, "want to do something together?". He finally replies back, "everyone around me is telling me that I should just wish you well. I wish you well. ". I remember being really disappointed. Then I woke up and the song, I wish you well from the Josie and the Pussycat Dolls movie. The dream comes on the heels of a friend asking me who Cate was because apparently the ex and her were at some Italian restaurant recently. My ex suddenly got into twittering, four squaring, and fbing where he happens to be. The twitter thing was influenced by her since she is also an avid twitterer. She also recently broke up with her boyfriend and doesn't "want to be 35 and have retarded babies" which is why she broke it off. My ex and her became fast friends when my ex and I were having issues. It stings and even though it's none of my business, I hope she is not leading him astray. Upon hearing this from a friend, it made me realize that it would be a bad idea to see my ex face to face. I gave him 3 chances gave us 3 chances and was disappointed each and every time. I dont think I'm strong enough to resist the pull if we met to talk. If in the far future we end up talking again, I'm going to keep it limited and strictly over some kind of electronic device. I'm slowly and surely getting to a place where I love myself more than the what ifs of the relationship. I got a haircut and eyebrows done and realized that I'm one hot chick and the possibility of finding someone that I'm physically attracted to and am crazy about and who is crazy about me with all the qualities I valued in the ex and past boyfriends doesn't seem impossible. It feels good to get this all out.
Zaphod B Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Dreams are simply just your subconscious messing with things that your mind has dwelt on recently. Or things that have been significant in your life. No need to think there is any special meaning. As for the coincidence with the music, I'll tell you one of my own. I was in an online romance with a woman. She dedicated two songs to me. The next day I went to the supermarket and those two songs played back to back on the radio. I got on line with her as soon as I got home and told her. For a moment we both had this euphoric feeling. It was wow! It just seemed like it was meant to be - the two of us being together. A few weeks later we'd "broken up". Coincendences are coincedences. To think there is something supernatural going on is wishful thinking.
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