arbrne_vet Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Another day, another day with no contact, another day i am closer to healing. had a really good workout last night. did not feel like it, but then started thinking about her. would not let that happen to me. went to drop something off at a friends house. went to see my daughter. hope today is better. i know i will be ok. just wondering when.
channy3418 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 I hear you ! This is my 8th day no contact. I am on my way to healing as well. It is the best method. Lets stay strong. I went even as far as to chaging my cell phone and email address, so I would not be tempted to always be picking up my phone. IT HAD TO BE DONE.
magnus mateo Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Stay strong. Stay focused on your goal of healing. Focus on you. Hope this helps. Hang in there!
Author arbrne_vet Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 i am staying strong. i am digging in. it is obvious to me that she has not wanted to be in this. all the signs were there. not sure if she is fooling around with someone at her work or not. don't really give a rat's fourth point of contact either. I have vanished from her life, and will stay that way. i don't even go to the same grocery store she goes to anymore. i am staying far away. she wants me out of her life, she got it!!!
ConfusedT Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 CONGRATS! It is so hard, and it will get harder before it gets easier, but it will get easier and one day you will wake up and just be done. I haven't got to that complete point yet, but I am done being miserable!
Author arbrne_vet Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 Thanks ConfusedT! i know this is not easy for any of us, but when you know others are going through the same thing, it helps. I ask that you keep NC also, and i will do the same.
Author arbrne_vet Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 i just want to write her a letter and let her know how i feel about everything, but then my logic grabs me, and i think, why?????????? she is getting what she wants. one day at a time.......
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