boxer2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 After a very difficult divorced, am finally feeling ready to move on with my life and tried personal section of a website. On my profile, I did not put my picture or the fact that I have a child that live with me, as I live in a small town and I don't want guy think that I am a single mum so will be a easy target for casual relationship. Went on a date, which went well and at then end of the date the guy asked if I like kid as he doesn't want any...I was like- went, not only I like kids, I have one. He was shock and disappointed, obviously he only called once after that and that was like, if I want to go to his place that night. Anyway, am off the website now, as I don't know what I should do. I want the guy get to know me as a person first and not to label me as a "single mum" before getting to know me. Any suggetion?
FitChick Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Tell the truth unless you plan to put your kid up for adoption. You are wasting their time and yours. But do NOT let them see photos of your child or meet it unless you are engaged to be married. There are pedophiles looking for desperate single mothers. Women can be so stupid.
KathyM Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Definately tell the truth on any dating website. Otherwise, you're wasting your time and the other person's time. When they find out you were not honest or forthcoming about something important, like the fact that you had a child, then they'll be upset and probably won't want to see you again. Better to be honest in the beginning, and then you will only get responses from men who would be OK with your having a child.
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