Janesays Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 "I don't like whores", is like someone saying "I don't like nigg#rs". It's the term itself that people have an issue with. Nailed it!
AHardDaysNight Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 OP, you're fine. Don't worry about it.
Author ksmit Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 OP, you're fine. Don't worry about it. Tell me WTF happen to my thread! LOL!!!
Janesays Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Tell me WTF happen to my thread! LOL!!! You got yourself a stalker, boy!
Author ksmit Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 "I don't like whores"' date=' is like someone saying "I don't like nigg#rs". It's the term itself that people have an issue with.[/quote'] It's good to have an issue with it, you should! It only further proves how disgusting being a whore is and how those who say otherwise are only trying to make themselves feel better about being that way. If you're a whore, you are not attractive to me and never will be. It's the same reason you wouldn't be attracted to a guy who eats his feces in public on a regular basis or enjoys licking gook off people's shoes because it tastes good. I would completely respect a person like that, but would not want to be associated with them.
antinko Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Hmm, as I sit here eating my popcorn as this thread apparently becomes derailed, I wonder just how many men who hate so called 'whores' would instantly jump into bed with a whole host of women should the opportunity arise? I wonder if it's a case of swings and roundabouts people and labels are a little bit crude...aren't they?
Yellow_Duck'y Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 It's good to have an issue with it, you should! It only further proves how disgusting being a whore is and how those who say otherwise are only trying to make themselves feel better about being that way. If you're a whore, you are not attractive to me and never will be. It's the same reason you wouldn't be attracted to a guy who eats his feces in public on a regular basis or enjoys licking gook off people's shoes because it tastes good. I would completely respect a person like that, but would not want to be associated with them. I didn't say I have an issue with it. I'm just trying to point out how any derogatory term, can be viewed as offensive. Your comparison to eating feces, is a bit strange, but we all see things differently.
Yellow_Duck'y Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Those two are not the same. N*gger is a racist term unjustifiably dubbed by the white man and it's pertained to ALL African-Americans. Whore is a term which describes women who sleep around with dozens of men in a year. Since all women are not whores, your "comparison" is incomparable. A few sexist, hypocritical posters on an internet board do not represent "everyone" as a whole. Alright... How about the term "fag"?
Author ksmit Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 Alright... How about the term "fag"? There's nothing whorish about being a fag. Do better.
Yellow_Duck'y Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Alright, I've made my point. Peace out.
Author ksmit Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 So there's nothing whorish about being a whore. Gotcha!
Yellow_Duck'y Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 So there's nothing whorish about being a whore. Gotcha! You said somewhere that you're afraid to kiss a girl because you have this notion that she's been with several "dudes". You're worried the girl is a "whore". You dislike promiscuity, perfectly reasonable, I wouldn't date a man who has cheated or is bisexual or who calls a group of people derogatory names. Sometimes we use slang words out of jest, or because it's funny, no biggie. I just hope your perception doesn't hinder you from forming a relationship with anyone at some point in your lifetime, non-whores included.
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Jane! please, behave! this is a public forum! (not leaving a mark is good trait! ) Ohh how this forum has gone astray!! I will say this much, sometimes girls in your age bracket, some of my friends included do sleep with people at parties or on the first date, sometimes that just happens in college or right after!! I don't "love" parties or anything like that, but they can be a fun way to meet people, from experience not everyone is drunk and throwing orgies so maybe try stepping out of your shell, the worst thing that happens is you didn't have that fun of a time, or you walk away having a blast! Just a thought though!
KR10N Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Alright, I've made my point. Peace out. Your avatar made me smile. I understand where ksmit is coming from. I've never done any of the things he's mentioned purely out of fear of making a huge mistake or just not trusting someone. I don't like many people just like he said he didn't, does that make me anti-social? No. I talk to many people. It doesn't matter if someone spends a lifetime trying to convince me they're trustworthy, actions speak louder than words. If a guy really wants me, he's going to have to work his butt off to make me believe he's an honest person.
Author ksmit Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 Your avatar made me smile. I understand where ksmit is coming from. I've never done any of the things he's mentioned purely out of fear of making a huge mistake or just not trusting someone. I don't like many people just like he said he didn't, does that make me anti-social? No. I talk to many people. It doesn't matter if someone spends a lifetime trying to convince me they're trustworthy, actions speak louder than words. If a guy really wants me, he's going to have to work his butt off to make me believe he's an honest person. Holy ****, I love you. How old are you? Can I take you out sometime?
KR10N Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 And hopefully you'll work your butt off also to convince him YOU'RE trustworthy.I would.
Tasha49 Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Wow what's the big deal with the OP calling a girl a whire if she sleeps around a whole bunch? That IS being a whore. Whore is a slang word that comesnoff more harsh, but sleeping around a ton is deserving of that name in my honest opinion. He said he doesn't like whores. Who cares? Get over it people. Why judge him for laveling? He's stating that he doesn't want a woman who has been around a whole ton. Which would be a whore. Or in a nicer way, overly promiscuous.
KR10N Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Holy ****, I love you. How old are you? Can I take you out sometime? Um... thank you? 20... Uh... And hopefully you'll work your butt off also to convince him YOU'RE trustworthy.Of course!
Author ksmit Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 Wow what's the big deal with the OP calling a girl a whire if she sleeps around a whole bunch? That IS being a whore. Whore is a slang word that comesnoff more harsh, but sleeping around a ton is deserving of that name in my honest opinion. Thank you! Oops. Whore I meant... not whire, hah You can edit posts... Um... thank you? 20... Uh... You seem like a rare bird on these forums and I just got really excited when I read that. We should chat privately sometime as I think we might connect and be able to help each other out.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Whore is a derogatory term towards women. It's no wonder that the girls on here are getting angry at it being used.
Yellow_Duck'y Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Your avatar made me smile. I understand where ksmit is coming from. I've never done any of the things he's mentioned purely out of fear of making a huge mistake or just not trusting someone. I don't like many people just like he said he didn't, does that make me anti-social? No. I talk to many people. It doesn't matter if someone spends a lifetime trying to convince me they're trustworthy, actions speak louder than words. If a guy really wants me, he's going to have to work his butt off to make me believe he's an honest person. Thanks KR10N, no worries.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Okay, it was foolish. However, dissing women in the same thread that you ask how attractive you are TO women...well, I think that was foolish, too.
KR10N Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 You seem like a rare bird on these forums...Some might say I'm a dodo.
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