KingOKUSH Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Been ****ty, but I'm managing to get by. Anyway, I feel straight, yknow, time heals all, but something in my gut is telling me to chase my ex. It's like I can feel her leavin subtle clues n ****. Like not even outta desperation, but outta straight confidence, like sweep this girl off her feet, type ****. Honestly, I kinda wanna, I almost pounded on her door today. ****'s driving me whack recently, but when I sit n think about it I can't fine one reason not to do it.
PelicanPete Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 If you need to get it out of your system, go for it. You can't really move on if you don't want to.
Lorelai Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Were you the dumper or was she? If you were the dumper and you want her, show her you want her. If she dumped you and you think she wants you to chase her... that's a bit ... off. Generally that's not the way it goes. Either way, though, if you think she's just playing games with you and that the chase is all she wants, that's not quite healthy. I'm not saying the chase isn't fun, it's an ego boost to the girl, and if you were the dumper her ego might need a bit of soothing. But what's more important is how you treat her after you've "caught" her... and how she treats you both during and after the chase. Winning someone, or even winning someone back, shouldn't be a line of hoops to jump through.
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