Delacy Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I finally know for sure she is never coming back, after only a handfull of texts, in those years... she likes a chat every now and again, but she doesnt want to see me in person. Is it time to block her on FB etc, just cut her off and finally move on? Advice needed please!!!
Zaphod B Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Yeah, you have to. Just cut off all ties, because it's doing you no good at all. No contact is the only way to get you through this I think. I know how hard it is to let go. I'm still trying to let go of someone I was with a year and a half a go and it's been No Contact now for just over a year. You just have to get used to the fact that her coming back to you is nothing but a hopeless fantasy and God ain't gonna perform a miracle, violate her freewill and bring her back to you.
magnus mateo Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 It is time to move on. She is holding you back. Break free and live your life. Focus on things that will make you better. Stay strong. Hope this helps. Good luck!
wannabdone Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 I am so sorry. I know its hard when you finally realize it will never be. But, the first step I think to your new life and freeing yourself and finding peace....is exactly what you are doing. Accepting. You can know you loved her, and she possibly loved you.... she just didn't love you enough. Again, i'm so sorry for your pain. No one should ever have to go through this. But trust me, you keep in contact, even every once in a while, you will blink your eyes and four more years have gone by and you are sitting in the exact same place, except with a lot less sanity. Chin up. WE will get through this!!!!
Author Delacy Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 Thank you guys... why do you think she doesn't mind the odd chat, but in no way wants to meet up in person?
spider165 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Because she is a coward just like my ex! I'm sure it's not easy for them to see is us especially if they know how bad they hurt us!
Author Delacy Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 Because she is a coward just like my ex! I'm sure it's not easy for them to see is us especially if they know how bad they hurt us! Could that really be it? anymore reasons?
mike588 Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 I can only hope you didn't sit around and wait for her to come back. What people should do after a breakup is to stay single for awhile and grieve the loss,, not jump back in dating someone else to fill the void. Now that you know it's over, get out and date again, not saying you have to fall in love. take it slow. Believe me I've felt the way you have too and can promise you that you will look back on this someday and be glad it happened,, you will have met someone who is more special.
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