GRUMPY Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 there is this guy at my job who at the begining woundnt talk to me but he stared at me alot and smiled. i want to know if this guy likes me so im ggoing to post the things that he does: one, he asked me if i had a boyfriend at the time i did so i said yes and he got this look of dissapointment on his face. he constantly asked me what i was doing later on that day or on the weekend. on valentines day he started joking around that we were going on a date and all that. then the following monday he kept saying why didnt you pick me up and all that. 2 times he asked me to the movies but then when we started talking about what movies to watch he changed the subject or got distracted by another person and he never asked for my number so i didnt pursue it on one of those times he stoped the convo and said wait do you have a boyfriend or not cuz your confusing me! he said all frustrated. he seems nervous or jittery when he would talk to me he started teasing me and would throw balls at me. he sometimes talks to me now other times hes a dick. whats with this guy? does he like me or what? Link to post Share on other sites
befuddled11 Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 No, he's definitely not an "a**h***." That's pretty harsh. He's obviously interested in you but either isn't ready to accept that you DO have a boyfriend, or he doesn't totally believe you have one. So what do you care, though? If you have a boyfriend, you shouldn't really be leading this guy on like you're doing ...eg) trying to figure out which movie to watch. Don't be a tease. If you have a boyfriend, be firm that you do and don't lead the poor guy on, that's RUDE and tacky. Link to post Share on other sites
GRUMPY Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 i had a boyfriend at the begining but very soon afterward we broke up and he knew that because he asked me "is that your boy on the phone?" and i told him "ugh! no i dont have a man anymore, we broke up" but anyways i think its wierd considering that he's 20 and im 19. isnt he alittle old to be acting this way>?? Link to post Share on other sites
Kelebek Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 When a guy isn't bothered - he won't bother himself. Simple as! It definitely looks like he's got feelings for you, from what you've told us, because if he didn't, he probably wouldn't be bothered to do all the stuff you described. He sounds really frustrated - you're giving him go-for-it signals but then you both pull away, and he's probably just angry about it - not at YOU in particular...you know how you just get angry when things don't go the way you want, that kind of angry. He actually sounds really sweet, it reminds me of a situation I had, and I didn't know if the guy liked me. Well, it turns out he did and I've just been on the most wonderful first date of my life!!! (He's 22, and I'm 18 - don't think there's an age limit on shyness and trying to work out if they like you!!) Do you like him? If you do, why don't you just open a conversation about movies and say, "So when are we actually going to GO to the cinema then, instead of just talking about it???" And see what happens. However, if you don't like him, then back off, because it really sounds as if he likes you and as if he's trying desperately to find out if you like HIM, so he'll be watching every signal you give out!! Link to post Share on other sites
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