Ron Mexico Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Im seeing 2 women bc im dating openly and the girl I like is seeing 3 guys, now when we are together Im gonna toot my horn and say im fairly keen with my tongue. She says most guys either dont like to do it or dont do it right and she had never felt a clitoral orgasm at 28 years old until me and she loves it, her whole body shakes and its an unreal feeling and she says nobody has done that to her before and she loves having me go down on her all the time now. Anyways she's still dating around and isn't too sure about me and Im curious how important is something like my ability to make her orgasm like nobody else going to be in her deciding factor to go exclusively into a relationship
sweetypielovely Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Well I'm a 40 year old woman and for me its always been about the connection and chemistry personally. Ive had BFs with small penis's and i never had an orgasm unless he did oral and others were horrible at oral and i had no orgasm from it. Doesn't sound too promising if she hasnt kept you for herself yet and keeps dating around. Orgasm isnt very important, at least to me.
FitChick Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Not that important in the grand scheme of things. Just a bonus. Boner?
Author Ron Mexico Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 so that whole cliche of giving a woman the o-face and she'll never leave you isn't true?
FitChick Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 so that whole cliche of giving a woman the o-face and she'll never leave you isn't true? It may have been true before vibrators were invented.
Cee Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I have a theory that men and women tell a white lie that their partner is the best at oral. My boyfriends have raved I'm great at oral, but now that I think about it, oral isn't rocket science. It's the willingness to devote sufficient time and care to the area. If anybody is willing to devote 20+ minutes to oral sex, they will be deemed to be good. I think it's great that you love giving, but I think you need a woman who is willing to give you a commitment. It doesn't seem right that you are one of many men. She gets off with you and then goes on dates with others.
Pierre Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Op: I am very opposed to multidating because I don't want to put my penis inside a vagina that was recently used to please other men. I would never put my tongue there if I knew she was f****ing other men. I bet she tells all her dates they are the best. What is she supposed to say?
CarrieT Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 The two best orgasm-producing men in my life were complete and total losers. One couldn't rub two brain cells together (and admitted as much, so it was not a secret!) and the other was a rampant and abusive alcoholic. I can't explain why or how they were able to produce such amazing orgasms from me, but it certainly did not sway my decision to keep them as relationship material.
zengirl Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I have a theory that men and women tell a white lie that their partner is the best at oral. My boyfriends have raved I'm great at oral, but now that I think about it, oral isn't rocket science. It's the willingness to devote sufficient time and care to the area. If anybody is willing to devote 20+ minutes to oral sex, they will be deemed to be good. I pretty much think this is the case. My BFs have raved how great I am at oral too, but I think "great" = seems happy to do it. If you actually WANT to give someone oral and you don't do stuff that's totally weird, you'll probably be good at it, I figure.
April72 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 I dated a guy that was so good at oral he made me climb the bed literally. NO ONE has ever done whatever it was he did.... I wished I would have spent less time enjoying and more attention to the technigue so I could teach others to do the same..... but..... We didn't click in any other way. He had to be good at oral cause he coulldn't go more then 3 strokes at intercourse. Outside of the bedroom I wasn't that attracted to him. We had nothing in common. I was typically bored before bed. And looked forward to him leaving. SSSSOOO.... yeah I'm glad I know how amazing great head can be.... but just the thought of him now makes my stomach turn.
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Personally, I have always enjoyed orgasms the most with a man I loved - rather than loving a man because of the orgasms he facilitated. Really, vibrators work a lot better than having sex with someone I'm not pretty crazy about. Maybe it's just me.
Yellow_Duck'y Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Personally, I have always enjoyed orgasms the most with a man I loved - rather than loving a man because of the orgasms he facilitated. Really, vibrators work a lot better than having sex with someone I'm not pretty crazy about. Maybe it's just me. Yep! I once had a man spend an hour down **ahem** there, and zilch.
FitChick Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Op: I bet she tells all her dates they are the best. What is she supposed to say? So much for the people who claim you should never lie. This is a perfect and rather common example.
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