opslimit Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 long story short, i was with my gf for 5 months, i found out she cheated on me with her ex, she pleaded with me to forgive her, i did then she broke up with me 2 weeks later which sent me into a spiral of confusion and hurt. I graduated college and moved 400 miles for my job and we talked a little, but more of back and forth arguing and she told me she regreted breaking up with me. I did NC and she was the one that came texting about missing me and such, i played it cool and then kept my NC going after a simple "ya i know break ups suck" well now she wants to be friends on FB, but im not ready to see what shes been up to.... where do i go from here? i know i need to cut the final cord of attachment, but we did have some great memories together and i dont think i will ever forget them.
Dblock10 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 not sure but tbh she cheated thats pretty low. you know your better than that. if it were me i think i wouldnt bother until you are with someone else and happy...
idkwtf Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 DONT DO IT!!! Same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. I accepted his friends request and he strung me along for a week before I FINALLY said "I am done. Leave us alone." This has set me back sooooo far. Think long and hard about this one. To THEM it may just be a simple friends request...but this really could throw you back into the black hole. Good luck!
Author opslimit Posted September 5, 2011 Author Posted September 5, 2011 I wanted to add also that i am very confused on what to do. I have alot of pictures on my fb of my college graduation with me and her and also my family and i dont know if i should untag myself, she hasnt untaged herself from any of our pictures and has told me she was very selfish and regrets breaking up. But when i look at the reality of the situation, me 400 miles away and her having at least 2 years of college left, i realize that we will probably never get back together. Do i leave all my stuff up and try to just accept everything and stay strong, or do i remove all pictures and block her so im not tempted to see her profile, like i said her friend request is sitting in my inbox and she has texted me a couple times to see how i am doing... this is my first serious relationship/breakup and we ended very bad when i went off on her for everything due to everything i had put up with after her cheating and lies of change, which she never did till the end.
olivec Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 long story short, i was with my gf for 5 months, i found out she cheated on me with her ex, she pleaded with me to forgive her, i did then she broke up with me 2 weeks later which sent me into a spiral of confusion and hurt. I graduated college and moved 400 miles for my job and we talked a little, but more of back and forth arguing and she told me she regreted breaking up with me. I did NC and she was the one that came texting about missing me and such, i played it cool and then kept my NC going after a simple "ya i know break ups suck" well now she wants to be friends on FB, but im not ready to see what shes been up to.... where do i go from here? i know i need to cut the final cord of attachment, but we did have some great memories together and i dont think i will ever forget them. I wouldn't add her man she hurt you in the past and she'll probably do it again. plus do you wanna see facebook pics of her on other guys. not fun man. do yourself a favour stick with no contact and block her from facebook and move on with your life. you'll end up finding someone better trust me.
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