channy3418 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I do not know if anyone remembers me, but I was on here a while ago confused about staying in a realationship with a man who's family was not approving of me. regardless of them I stayed with him for 2 years. the reason they were against me is I am divorced and have children. they are old school Italian. My bF is very close to his family. So he just kept us apart. His family was his family and I was well his GF but they did not accept me in their home or around them. I came to terms with this. He promised a proposal so his parents would know I am going anywhere. I became pregnant 13 weeks ago and he was not able to cope he wanted me to have an abortion from the start, after telling his family they disowned him. last week he ended the realtionship with me. and has not even tried to see if the baby and I were ok, I was put into so much distress, I suffered a miscarriage. I am so upset. I cannot believe this man would actually be able to do something like this. He promised his life to me. I am lost, confused and so heart broken. I am grieving two losses and I am not able to cope. I felt like the pregnancy was better then an enegaement ring, it would show his parents THIS WOMAN IS GOING NO WHERE !!!!!
Buttercup84 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Hi hun I am so sorry. Please do not take this the wrong way , I am sorry if I insult you.But did you think that having a baby would make things better , make him want you more ? Often as women we think that it cements a relationship , I felt that too at times. Please speak to someone about this , you shouldn't deal with this alone.
Author channy3418 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 No, Actually I was on the pill and Antibiotics at the same time. It was not planned at all. It was very upsetting.
Buttercup84 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Sorry , anti biotics can cause that. I was pregnant too so I can understand your grief. I hate when family influence their children that way , it is really cruel of them.You might not see that now , but you are very lucky to escape them.And your ex. I am so sorry you lost your baby.
coolheadal Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Sad time for you what are you going to do with the baby? It's not the baby fault but are you ready to raise this guy kid on your own? Something to consider. Guys can change their minds, those are so committed can also. Tough call to be in right now. I wish you the best of luck..
Author channy3418 Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 Thank you so much, I did lose the baby. The stress that was caused out my body into distress and I miscarried.
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