April72 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Ok I have wanted to ask this question for awhile but I don't know how to word it without getting bashed... but I'm gonna try. Just know this is really just curiousity....Not a put down or a sexist comment. Ok I have a dear friend that since we were in our early teens she has always gotten a ton of attention from males. She is an attractive girl but isn't what is typically considered... say sexy. She is a heavier set girl. Not that that makes her less attractive... but other friends of mine just as pretty with the same weight issue get NO attention from males. She has always attracted them and had a line waiting to be next to be with her. She also became pretty permisicous. I never thought much of it, probably because her and I are so close. But we have had oither girlfriends far prettier ... with sexier bodies... become very put out by the attention she gets. So one of my friends asked a group of men what it was about her.... they answered "she oozes sexuality... you can tell she's a sure bet... she seems easy" ..... none of which I ever picked up on... we would all be out at the bar drinking and flirting and acting silly.... she didn't seem any different. But men flock to her. Even outside of the bar she gets lots or attention. So my question is.... can men sense if a woman is easy ??? Do some woment come off easier then others ??? Do someone seem more sexual in a day to day sitting... such as work or the grocery store ??? I mean it makes since when it's a vulouptous blonde in high heels short shorts and a halter top.... none of which describe this girl. Idk.... what makes some women draw tons of attention and others get ignored ???
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 When lions attack a herd of wilderbeast (pun intended) they go for the weakest one. You guys are all more attractive than her and guys will feel like they don't stand a chance so they go after her. And being the odd one in the group she is more likely to put out just to try to even the competition
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Ok I have wanted to ask this question for awhile but I don't know how to word it without getting bashed... but I'm gonna try. Just know this is really just curiousity....Not a put down or a sexist comment. Ok I have a dear friend that since we were in our early teens she has always gotten a ton of attention from males. She is an attractive girl but isn't what is typically considered... say sexy. She is a heavier set girl. Not that that makes her less attractive... but other friends of mine just as pretty with the same weight issue get NO attention from males. She has always attracted them and had a line waiting to be next to be with her. She also became pretty permisicous. I never thought much of it, probably because her and I are so close. But we have had oither girlfriends far prettier ... with sexier bodies... become very put out by the attention she gets. So one of my friends asked a group of men what it was about her.... they answered "she oozes sexuality... you can tell she's a sure bet... she seems easy" ..... none of which I ever picked up on... we would all be out at the bar drinking and flirting and acting silly.... she didn't seem any different. But men flock to her. Even outside of the bar she gets lots or attention. So my question is.... can men sense if a woman is easy ??? Do some woment come off easier then others ??? Do someone seem more sexual in a day to day sitting... such as work or the grocery store ??? I mean it makes since when it's a vulouptous blonde in high heels short shorts and a halter top.... none of which describe this girl. Idk.... what makes some women draw tons of attention and others get ignored ??? Pretty much. I've been with a couple of chicks who were nothing to look at(really short, no boobs, saggy ass, weak hair), but they were so incredibly sexy. Part of it, I reckon, is correlated to how easy they are. Flirt with them a little and you'll get laid - if she deems you attractive. I am far more interested in dealing with a woman who is average or only a couple of notches more attractive than the rest, but more than eager to put out, than losing my time and getting blue balls, with the playboy model. Poon is poon, anyway.
grkBoy Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 April, if you see the Netflix ads on this site, you'll see some images of Christine Hendricks playing her role of Joan in Mad Men. Since the show came out, magazines kept asking the question if she was too "big" for Hollywood...since Hendricks is a very voluptuous woman. What's funny is I'll see women call her "fat" while men call her "sexy". Why? Because Joan (the character) is feisty and oozes sexuality. She comes off as secure in her femininity and doesn't hide that she's a woman. She doesn't dress like a tramp, but also doesn't act like a nun. Men are drawn to that. So let's say you have 10 women who go to a club one night. Five of them are all models...thin bodies, some with big fake boobs, long hair, makeup, etc. The other five are plain janes and even one larger woman like your friend. They all dress great and are dolled up as well, but in a "looks scale" they're not anywhere close to the first five. Now then, the five "models" end up getting a free booth and bottle in the VIP area, where they sit all night. Men try to come up, but they cockblock or simply send the message that these guys are not "worthy"...because these women might see all those guys are "not good enough", or they think if they talk to the men they'll be seen as sl*ts. The other five though stay in the public areas, talk to guys, flirt, they don't easily "put out", but they are open, friendly, sociable, feisty, and also ooze sexuality and confidence. Who do you think will get asked more for their number? In the end, men love approachable women. Even women seen as "bigger" or "not as good looking" in the fashion world will go further if they're friendly and sociable over the "uber hot" women who lock themselves up in ivory towers. It's not about being "easy" and banging guys easily...it's about being open, sociable, and friendly. If I walk into a room and see two women...one hides in a corner with her clique and keeps turning away when I look at her, while the other stands in a more public spot, looks at me, and smiles...I'm going to go talk to the girl who gave me the opening. Too many women in social situations tend to "hide" and then wonder why they're not meeting guys...or the only guys who come up are playas who could care less about obstacles and only see her as a possible notch.
Easyguy14 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 April, if you see the Netflix ads on this site, you'll see some images of Christine Hendricks playing her role of Joan in Mad Men. Since the show came out, magazines kept asking the question if she was too "big" for Hollywood...since Hendricks is a very voluptuous woman. What's funny is I'll see women call her "fat" while men call her "sexy". Why? Because Joan (the character) is feisty and oozes sexuality. She comes off as secure in her femininity and doesn't hide that she's a woman. She doesn't dress like a tramp, but also doesn't act like a nun. Men are drawn to that. So let's say you have 10 women who go to a club one night. Five of them are all models...thin bodies, some with big fake boobs, long hair, makeup, etc. The other five are plain janes and even one larger woman like your friend. They all dress great and are dolled up as well, but in a "looks scale" they're not anywhere close to the first five. Now then, the five "models" end up getting a free booth and bottle in the VIP area, where they sit all night. Men try to come up, but they cockblock or simply send the message that these guys are not "worthy"...because these women might see all those guys are "not good enough", or they think if they talk to the men they'll be seen as sl*ts. The other five though stay in the public areas, talk to guys, flirt, they don't easily "put out", but they are open, friendly, sociable, feisty, and also ooze sexuality and confidence. Who do you think will get asked more for their number? In the end, men love approachable women. Even women seen as "bigger" or "not as good looking" in the fashion world will go further if they're friendly and sociable over the "uber hot" women who lock themselves up in ivory towers. It's not about being "easy" and banging guys easily...it's about being open, sociable, and friendly. If I walk into a room and see two women...one hides in a corner with her clique and keeps turning away when I look at her, while the other stands in a more public spot, looks at me, and smiles...I'm going to go talk to the girl who gave me the opening. Too many women in social situations tend to "hide" and then wonder why they're not meeting guys...or the only guys who come up are playas who could care less about obstacles and only see her as a possible notch. definitely agree with this statement which is why I always seek the plain jane type over the swimsuit model. those women seem so uptight and I do understand they're that way because of too much attention from men just after a lay, but at the same token they still should be casual about things because they're missing out on good dateable mates. they dont have to be easy or anything but just a little bit approachable and not so locked in. but it's easier than done because they become so used to being that way that they cant snap out of it until they're past their physical prime.
Pierre Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 A beautiful woman gets attention by being beautiful. An average women gets attention by putting out. Whatever works!!
AHardDaysNight Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I agree with Pierre. Some women do very well, because they're willing to sleep around.
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 A beautiful woman gets attention by being beautiful. An average women gets attention by putting out. Whatever works!! The problem with the more attractive female is that she doesn't need to put out to get male attention. Men, even when they are attractive, will only receive blue balls from the most attractive of the group. Giving that attention to the average woman - especially if the man is good-looking - has a very high chance of resulting in sex. Blue ball, feeding a woman's ego.. Or sex?
Author April72 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Yeah but can you sense from just meeting a woman or seeing her if she is easy ?
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Yeah but can you sense from just meeting a woman or seeing her if she is easy ? If her friends are more attractive than her, and you give attention to her; it's almost a guaranteed lay. The guy's good-looks maximize the possibility of an easy lay.
iJester Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 How big is your friend? Your idea, and guys' ideas of heavy, might be different.
Pierre Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Sometimes you see good looking women with low self esteem. Sometimes they put out as much as the average ones.
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Sometimes you see good looking women with low self esteem. Sometimes they put out as much as the average ones. Some extremely high-confidence and beautiful women, will put out if the guy is crazy enough. I once had a woman in my circle of friends who was absolutely perfect, a sort of Greek Goddess. Perfect family background. I thought it would take quite a bit of money to have some lovin' from her, but she was already having the security/travel need covered by the steady boyfriend, and she was being sexually satisfied by recently out of jail, men. Many of the guys were average- looking. It sure payed off to have a juvenile record
TracyH Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 A beautiful woman gets attention by being beautiful. An average women gets attention by putting out. Whatever works!! Totally agree with this... just playing the hands we're dealt with!!
Anela Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I just googled the actress mentioned above. How on earth is she considered fat?? She looks truly curvy, and she isn't a stick figure. I think she looks beautiful. Fat women can be beautiful - it gets to me the way many men here seem to think that fat women don't deserve to be loved (or "plain" women) - but this woman isn't fat in my estimation.
iJester Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I just googled her too, she's gorgeous. You and your friends are probably flat chested with no asses.
Author April72 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 I just googled her too, she's gorgeous. You and your friends are probably flat chested with no asses. hahahah. i never said that she was unattractive.... i just mentioned that she is heavier sit.... and I also have friends (same size) just as beautiful.... get no attention... none.... but this one can't beat them off with a stick. She is pretty....and none of the thinner ones are super model types..... but even at wal-mart or little leagu or work.... men just line up to know here..... and want to date her and get to know her.... not just ons. men love her. I get it but I don't get it.... my question was can men sense if a woman's easy.... not a debate on fat or skinny.
LoveandSuch Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Yes! Insecurity + loose can be sniffed a mile away by men. This thread is funny and shows how easy men are when it comes to them wanting to get laid no matter what the goods may be.
LoveandSuch Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 :lmao:Hilarious moreso, is this is what men are posting on the PUA boards, there 8.5s or whatevers. In actual, they are waking up to a inecure open holed butterball turkey who just sucked up their mankind, asking them if they have a box of Cocoa Puffs in the pantry:laugh:
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Yes! Insecurity + loose can be sniffed a mile away by men. This thread is funny and shows how easy men are when it comes to them wanting to get laid no matter what the goods may be. Lemme see. The average man has double or triple of the average woman's levels of testosterone? Young men might have double of that? With most women being so selective, the average man has to have his radar up all the time. Or he's going home to the playboy channel.
LoveandSuch Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Lemme see. The average man has double or triple of the average woman's levels of testosterone? Young men might have double of that? With most women being so selective, the average man has to have his radar up all the time. Or he's going home to the playboy channel. Thank god women have less of Letsgetitonsterone! Wouldn't want to be rolling around with men I am not atrracted to, to just get off! Eeeewie!
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Thank god women have less of Letsgetitonsterone! Wouldn't want to be rolling around with men I am not atrracted to, to just get off! Eeeewie! It's okay. With the new batch of 20-something women just around the corner; the guys won't bother you anymore. Don't worry.
LoveandSuch Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 It's okay. With the new batch of 20-something women just around the corner; the guys won't bother you anymore. Don't worry. Ha Ha ha, I smell the whiff of an Angry Man:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Ha Ha ha, I smell the whiff of an Angry Man:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh: Why would that be? I'm telling you that you won't have to suffer the indignity of having men sniffing around you; how does that make me angry?
LoveandSuch Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Why would that be? I'm telling you that you won't have to suffer the indignity of having men sniffing around you; how does that make me angry? Not having men sniff after me would be a godsend, just reading this thread shows men just look at women as object with a hole to mess around with.
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