blondy Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I was with my boyfriend for 3 years. I broke up with him cause I needed to clear my head. It's been 3 months since I broke up with him. I really hurt this man and I didn't mean too. I saw him a week ago and all those feelings came back. I was ready for this. I wanted to marry this man even though before him I never wanted to get married again. We have been talking these last 3 months and I told him I missed him. He said he missed me too. He said that he can't see himself with anyone else and doing the things we did with another girl. He's being very cautious cause he doesn't want me to hurt him again. I wont, I know that I want this. I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I love this man with all my heart. I know deep down he loves me too. He said that if he gives this a second chance he wants to take it slow. He wants us to rekindle what we had if we can. I believe we can. I am having a problem understanding how to take it slow and how am I going to take it slow with all these feelings for him?!? I am completely lost on this. I told him that I would doing anything to get this back. If I could take it back I would in a hot second but I cant. We want to do this right this time around. I just don't know how to handle this. I've never been put in this position. So any advice will help.
ScienceGal Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Have you considered going to couples counseling? You both have a deep love for each other, that much is clear. And, if you both are willing to put forth the effort (yes, it will take time and effort), then counseling could help you understand how to get on the right path together. Good luck
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