How important is a woman's situation "down there"?

[FrustratedStandards]

I dated a guy for over decade who hated the fact that I got MOIST. He was fine giving me oral up to the point where my juices started to flow and then he stopped.

 

Took me years to figure out what a fool he was but it made me very self-conscious about it...

 

Actually I have that with men. I love giving blowjobs but as soon as they start getting wet, I get turned off big time. Which isn't good because its natural to get lubricated, but I must admit I am the same with men.

[FrustratedStandards]

Really? I love the taste of a woman's fluids. If she's healthy, the juices can be sweeter than cherries.

 

That's so bizarre. I have had men say that to me, that it tastes "so sweet like candy" but I don't understand how! Even when I masturbate and get very wet, the smell alone is so appaling! I can't possibly understand how it's sweet.

[flyaway]

ive been told by my bf that my juices smell and taste sweet. the smell is fine to me. i eat a lot of pineapple so maybe that helps.

 

i use hair remover cream down there about 2x a week. im very smooth. my bf loves it and i do too. i feel uncomfortable when it starts to grow out so i use my cream again. the cream is inexpensive, no extra cost here. sometimes i shave in between treatments.

 

i do not wax. i refuse to. that sounds so painful.

 

my bf in return shaves down there, his balls too. i appreciate it.

[D-Lish]

I take it all off down there, everything!

 

I have a secret to keeping things totally odor-free down there.

It's never failed me, ever. I don't share that secret with too many people;)

[Nexus One]

I have a secret to keeping things totally odor-free down there.

It's never failed me, ever. I don't share that secret with too many people;)

 

Allow me to take a guess. You are so flexible that you can roll yourself up into a ball a lick yourself clean.

 

 

*Oh no Nexus, you di'in't, you went there!*

[ScienceGal]

I trim. Aesthetically I don't like bare pubes or bushes. I've never had an issue with hygiene, smells, or tastes down there, either. If you want to remove your body hair, have at it; if you want to keep it, then do so. I could care less. I don't spend a ton of time eyeballing privates to have a preference.

 

My thoughts exactly!

[D-Lish]

Allow me to take a guess. You are so flexible that you can roll yourself up into a ball a lick yourself clean.

 

 

*Oh no Nexus, you di'in't, you went there!*

 

If I could do that, you'd never see me posting on LS- you'd probably never ever see me out in public.

[Nexus One]

If I could do that, you'd never see me posting on LS- you'd probably never ever see me out in public.

 

If it's any consolation, I can't s*ck my own d*ck either.

[LoveandSuch]

Ya, it is. Maybe santa claus will bring me the new ferrari. Would help me out a bit

 

You must be young I assume, I hope. You mention celebrities and you mention women in night clubs going for the top men. Top men do not frequent night clubs frequently and usually have zero interest in bar stools. Occasionally going out to these places, but a hang out, nah.

 

Sadly most top guys are married, because they are tops guys...lol. And they are in high demand. The loser PUAs you are referring to are not catches, neither are the barstools. You need to switch your thinking pattern, it is strange. Most you mention seems opposite as to how you should see them.

[ThsAmericanLife]

gee, someone hates men.

 

This reminds me of when I was 16 years old and went to dance with some friends. Two very hot girls made-out in front of us to provoke us. Years later, after working out like a dog, I got the chance to exert such a powerful sexual response in a woman, thanks to a good friend of mine, and thanks to the African dances I was taught.

 

Who would know that 2 guys who worked out, to get decent looking, could arise physical desire in a woman just by dancing together?

 

Nah, I know, I'm gay, or living in my parents house. Forget about it.

 

you aren't a man. you are just something that happened to be born with a penis.

 

There is a difference.

[D-Lish]

If it's any consolation, I can't s*ck my own d*ck either.

 

Yeah, but if you could you'd be homeless, jobless, and totally lacking in vitamin D from lack of sunlight.

[ThsAmericanLife]

Which is funny because removing all pubic hair increases a woman's chances of developing bacterial vaginosis.

 

If the skin is breached during shaving, waxing, or plucking, the bacteria already near the vagina or on the instruments used can cause various infections, and immunocompromised people are especially vulnerable.

 

I agree... removing all or most of the hair seems freaky to me.

 

and, I would add, it might eventually make the entire area less sensitive since it is getting rubbed all day by clothing.

 

I'll keep the stuff nature gave me, thank you!!

[CarrieT]

 

i do not wax. i refuse to. that sounds so painful.

 

 

So.... at 47 years old, I had my first was EVER last week because the guy I'm seeing prefers complete baldness.

 

And it wasn't that bad at all. I'm still getting used to not having hair -- as I've had for 30-some-odd-years -- but like how appreciative he is of my endeavors.

[KathyM]

Ah the age old question of to shave, trim or afro out the bush. You are going to get a multitude of answers and logic on this one and the funny thing is the only two answers that matter are your own and the lucky one getting to partake in the honey hole. What do you prefer, what feels good to you both just looking in the mirror but also during sex, foreplay, etc? Ask your parnter the same question.

 

I have gone through phases where a I liked them trimed but not bald and then bald all the way. But I've never really cared for the all natural mega bush with the exception of red heads because that fire crotch and red hair down under is a turn on in that case. To each their own. For me, I like going down on a smooth mound and slit and not having to hold hair out of the way or stopping to pull a rogue hair off my tongue. I like that during sex when you are fully penatrated and grinding that it is smooth and glides across my own skin. Its never about what it looked it, razor bumps, in grown hairs, etc...its more of what it feels like and makes for more of an enjoyable snack IMO.

 

But most important is that the woman feels sexy in her choice. If she is all worried about it looking funny or weird it robs the moment of being what it could. So do what works for you and if you partner's preference is different than your own, trust me they care more about getting to be there with it then how it is packaged.

My husband feels the same way--that it feels smooth and glides in better. More skin-to-skin contact just feels better for both. It was never about how it looks that made him want us to shave. It was about the feeling of it that he prefers it smooth.

[Yellow_Duck'y]

Don't women have anything better to do with their time with all of this retarded over-grooming?

 

It only takes a few minutes to shave the wolf monkey. If they wax, it takes much longer.

[Elysian Powder]

Why do you think that is? Why do you think that before it was okay to be natural, and all of a sudden you aren't attractive unless you meet these requirements?

 

Why has it changed so much? And by which influence do you think? Is porn to blame?

 

Beauty has always been Mankind's priority. The Human form is the greatest idol of worship. Ever since men attained sapience, we've attributed positive qualities to those who had the looks, and negative connotations to those who were ugly.

 

The Spartans made physical prowess their lifestyle. Working on their bodies to resemble the greek gods; the Athenians created many of the world's models for female beauty.

 

Pericles himself, still being a very enlighten man took a prostitute as his wife because of her amazing beauty.

 

Alexander III of Macedonia married the daughter of a small-time King for her good-looks. A man concerned about his divine status marrying a princess of a diminutive nation? A nation of shepherds?

 

Beauty, height, good teeth, good hair; nothing else in life matters.

[Elysian Powder]

That's so bizarre. I have had men say that to me, that it tastes "so sweet like candy" but I don't understand how! Even when I masturbate and get very wet, the smell alone is so appaling! I can't possibly understand how it's sweet.

 

The fluids must contain female hormones. Every time I smell a woman's natural lube I get a massive boner.

 

 

You must be young I assume, I hope. You mention celebrities and you mention women in night clubs going for the top men. Top men do not frequent night clubs frequently and usually have zero interest in bar stools. Occasionally going out to these places, but a hang out, nah.

 

 

Ya, I'm young. Ah, you're talking about marriage material men. I see them all the time. Usually lamenting their lack of money(due to divorce), having to live in holes, or resenting the many other consequences of being a quality man.

 

 

Science has long proved that there are 2 types of men; the provider and the cad.

 

 

The cad goes in there, enjoys the woman's beauty, gets her pregnant, and moves on. A provider steps in to raise the child and pay for everything the cad ddin't have to work or pay for.

 

I personally know guys who are marriage material. Women didn't look at them when they were young, their sexual life was zero, but as soon as the women left their partying years behind suddenly the beta male became appealing.

 

So I see these guys going to work everyday, doing extra hours, paying for that family house. The wife is fatter and fatter, probably hasn't put out(for him) in months, nags about everything and never leaves the man alone.

 

The good men who have a good marriage report a lasting boredom, no passion sex, way too many obligations and duties.

 

Many of those spend most of their time with their buddies.

 

Don't forget that a good woman can turn bad at any time. You can have the Virgin Mary as your wife, but one day you might found out that she's been milking the milk man for the past 30 years.

 

 

It's a matter of profit.

 

I observe what being a good man entails and what I get from being a good man.

 

I turn around to observe the older bad boys.

 

What do I see?

 

Guys having a life of fun 24/7 in their 60's.

 

No obligations. No financial pressure. The possiblity of being cheated is not there.

 

Immense sexual variety. Lots of sex. Vast amounts of money because they've had a serious relationship.

 

And the list goes on.

 

I've studied what follows up with being a real man, and I've done the same with the bad boy life style.

 

 

Thanks, but I'd rather be a silly kid.

[Elysian Powder]

you aren't a man. you are just something that happened to be born with a penis.

 

There is a difference.

 

To you, I am not, but that's because you're probably in your 30's and looking to settle down with an engineer or a doctor, am I right?

 

To a 20-year old, I'm a real man, for I fulfill all of her requirements to what a real man is, and she's not looking for anything serious.

 

As a man I am wired to have sex with as many women as possible. So to biology, I am a strong, independent man. What some women think of me because I refuse to be a provider is quite amusing.

 

Thanks, lady.

 

Vast amounts of money because they've had a serious relationship.

 

Never had.

 

By the way, I wasn't aware that insulting a man's masculinity was part of the code of conduct. Wonder how long I'd last on this forum if I was insulting a woman's femininity, at least in the same manner.

Edited September 2, 2011 by Elysian Powder

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Elysian Powder: The funny thing about porn is that it does its job so well, sometimes I'd rather sit home and jack off.

 

 

Elysian Powder: I'm a real man

 

 

After reading more of your posts Elysian, I just feel really sad for you. I'm going to bet that you don't have a strong father figure in your life.

[Elysian Powder]

After reading more of your posts Elysian, I just feel really sad for you. I'm going to bet that you don't have a strong father figure in your life.

 

Good strategy. Trying to put my nature as a man, and my utilization of the good looks that I worked out to attain so that I could expand my pool of potential lays, on an imaginary scenario of not having a strong father figure.

 

That father figure would probably teach me to be a proper man, to only one woman?

 

My father is what every woman here considers a good man to ''be''.

 

He's been married for many decades now, and from what he tells me, my mother was his first, although he had had ''girlfriends''.

 

How ironic is that? That I've had an example of what a good man is, and rejected it as soon as I realized that being a ''kid'', a piece of ''garbage'', is far more valuable than being the man that women in their 30's want?

 

It sure doesn't help to see many of those females banging my bad boy friends while staying married to the walking ATM machine .

 

Tell you what.

 

I'll be honest and tell you that the vast majority of men would turn into sex-addicts if looking like Brad Pitt was possible for every man. Human nature. It's so obvious. Only those who can't participate in the carnal festival claim otherwise.

Edited September 2, 2011 by Elysian Powder

[zengirl]

Here's what I don't get about your theory:

 

While he had his indiscretions, Brad Pitt never struck me as a sex addict or even someone who slept with tons of girls. Sure, he had the affair with Angelina (whether it was only emotional until he broke it off with Jen or not -- he claims nothing physical happened pre-separation, and it seems entirely possible to me, but whatev), but it's not like you ever heard stories of him slutting it up. He was always a GF guy, whether it was Lewis or Paltrow or Anniston or Jolie. And he's been married twice and has lots of kids now.

 

You use him as your example (if everyone looked like him!), but he doesn't choose to do that with his looks from what I can tell. And I really think Angelina Jolie would cut a bitch if he slept around on her, not to mention it seems pretty unavoidable that this stuff would come out. The rumors of his affair with Angelina Jolie were out there from the start.

 

And there are celebrities who sleep around and celebrities who seem to prefer various kinds of monogamy whether it's serial monogamy (a la Clooney) or true monogamy (a la Pitt, I'd say). I posit to you that attractiveness has very little to do with what a guy prefers. In fact, most sexy male celebrities seem to seek, at least, girlfriends eventually, and many seek wives. They could slut around, but they choose not to.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Elysian Poweder - I thought you had a bad opinion of women. But it becomes more apparent that you have an even worse opinion of men. All your posts have a bit of defensiveness in them coupled with purposeful antagonism. You're purposely acting like a caricature.

 

I still suspect there is something going on with your parents. Perhaps with your mother or even your father despite his years of marriage. There is something strange going on with you to make the "arguments" you've been making. No one here called you a "kid" or a "piece of garbage" so I suspect that came from somewhere else and is part of the reason for your issues.

 

I also suspect you're putting a bit of a show on. Naturally, you would never admit to that and you will go on talking about how men are only as good a their dicks and women are only as good as their vaginas. But instead of portraying the image of a man, you're really doing the exact opposite. Although again, I suspect you know this.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Woops..double post.

[Elysian Powder]

Elysian Poweder - I thought you had a bad opinion of women. But it becomes more apparent that you have an even worse opinion of men. All your posts have a bit of defensiveness in them coupled with purposeful antagonism. You're purposely acting like a caricature.

 

I still suspect there is something going on with your parents. Perhaps with your mother or even your father despite his years of marriage. There is something strange going on with you to make the "arguments" you've been making. No one here called you a "kid" or a "piece of garbage" so I suspect that came from somewhere else and is part of the reason for your issues.

 

I also suspect you're putting a bit of a show on. Naturally, you would never admit to that and you will go on talking about how men are only as good a their dicks and women are only as good as their vaginas. But instead of portraying the image of a man, you're really doing the exact opposite. Although again, I suspect you know this.

 

Ya, I know that if I am not a white knight, the white knight will accuse me of being an abuser of women.

 

I'm not a real man if I'm not giving to a 30 year old woman what she wants, and I have issues(ie; I hate women/men/have a bad father figure), if I'm not paying attention to the average woman, instead pinning for the good-looking woman.

 

Even worse is the fact that I have options and that I can get laid by a woman most guys only get to masturbate to on a computer screen. I must have been abused as a child; what other explanation could there be?

 

Soon enough a married man will come to tell me that I am afraid of real intimacy, with a real woman. Minutes after that his wife will call him to go pick up the kids and prepare for yet one more weekend of dealing with her parents and with the playboy channel.

 

Why don't I feel like a loser when I'm my getting the vip treatment on a most elite of clubs; if my fashion industry friends hook me up with amazingly good-looking women?

 

I mean, the majority of men at the time are dealing with their annoying girlfriends and pinning for a bit of sex. Meanwhile, the married man is reaching that heart attack(caused by responsibilities), and I'm just enjoying the best this world has to offer.

 

Without having to sell my soul for it.

 

I really do need help. I've escaped the matrix and I ain't coming back!

 

 

PS: Why are you so mad at this? Plenty of white knights will settle with you.

Edited September 2, 2011 by Elysian Powder

[ThsAmericanLife]

In fact, most sexy male celebrities seem to seek, at least, girlfriends eventually, and many seek wives. They could slut around, but they choose not to.

 

Yep. What is really 'sexy' are the people who have the 'power' to use their natural gifts (looks, brains, charisma, etc) for something bad or negative...

 

But choose not to.

 

I had a lot of respect for Paul Newman... long-time married, a real hottie in his time, plenty of $$ and brains... and used his business sense to come up with a line of organic products that gave back to charity. He and his wife were one of the first.

 

And while I'm not personally attracted to Brad Pitt, he and Angelina Jolie seem to be doing something good for the kids they adopt and seem to spend at least some of their time on worthy causes.