Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 I'm pretty sure I already know that Madjac. My thing will be falling for her to hard. That's my weakness.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 We get it MadJac, you're such a better man then the OP and the Stripper because while you enjoy strip clubs and have fun going, you would never date a girl from it. Despite being a guy that enjoy going to them. Yes, you're so high and mighty.
Professor X Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I also think a lot of men think rubbing boobs on their face is pretty hot Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 LOL^ Also it's not like I frequent strip clubs and go looking for a hopeless situation. Sorta just happened by her just doing her job at first and it led to conversations and hanging outside of work. I think what I am going to do is led off the conversations and seeing her - and see how she reacts. Like a previous poster said - I want to see if she likes me just as much as I do her.
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I'm pretty sure I already know that Madjac. My thing will be falling for her to hard. That's my weakness. Ok then! The exotic dancer thing is a moot point. My GF gets a great deal of attention too because (like your girl) she is very pretty and I'm guessing she is just great with people. My GF has a lot of guy friends and I know for a fact that several of them wish they were me. But your relationship is more new and uncertain and you guys are very young. I say just lay low. If she likes you out of all those sea of contacts she has then she will come to you
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Finally I agree with you Madjac.
dasein Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Agree that you should remove her picture and yours also. Good luck with dating her, just keep a distance and enjoy each other's company. Not good odds that this will turn longterm but who knows?
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 you enjoy strip clubs and have fun going, you would never date a girl from it Taken out of context. Nice work. You can't even copy and paste
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 That is what you said Babe. You said you liked going to strip clubs but you acted all high and mighty about not dating strippers.
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 That is what you said Babe. You said you liked going to strip clubs but you acted all high and mighty about not dating strippers. Please go back and read. Scroll. Scroll. I never said I liked going to strip clubs but I will have fun when I go. And it isn't about putting my face in boobs, it's about having a good time with friends. If it happens to be in a strip club then so be it but I usually spend my dollar for a pal's benefit
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Finally I agree with you Madjac. See! I know I seem like a jerk at first but I'm reasonable and even likeable at times
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I never said I liked going to strip clubs but I will have fun when I go. I don't understand the distinction you're attempting to make. You have fun with you go to strip clubs. Men that don't like to go to strip clubs, just don't go. And they find other places to go with their friends to spend time. It's not like that's the only place men can go. You can go to a regular bar just the same. And it isn't about putting my face in boobs, it's about having a good time with friends. If it happens to be in a strip club then so be it but I usually spend my dollar for a pal's benefit. Oh, I get it now. You're sacrificing for your friends. Spending a dollar on a stripper and a pretty girl shaking her body infront of you is about sacrificing for your friends so you can be closer to them. Funny how much more respect some guys afford their friends then their own partners. Now going to strip clubs is about being sacrifical for your buddies. Meanwhile, I bet those same buddies are telling the same story to their girlfirneds or wives.
dasein Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 That is what you said Babe. You said you liked going to strip clubs but you acted all high and mighty about not dating strippers. I imagine a vast majority of the women who enjoy going to male strip reviews feel the exact same way, doesn't make them "high and mighty." People have a right to their preferences... Your Honor.
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I don't understand the distinction you're attempting to make. You have fun with you go to strip clubs. Men that don't like to go to strip clubs, just don't go. And they find other places to go with their friends to spend time. It's not like that's the only place men can go. You can go to a regular bar just the same. OMG you are so frustrating! People get roped into going to these places all the time. Ex...bachelor party. It's been probably 5 years since ive been to one. It's hanging out with the guys and having a beer...not "oh im going to take one of these girls home" Oh, I get it now. You're sacrificing for your friends. Spending a dollar on a stripper and a pretty girl shaking her body infront of you is about sacrificing for your friends so you can be closer to them. Funny how much more respect some guys afford their friends then their own partners. Now going to strip clubs is about being sacrifical for your buddies. Meanwhile, I bet those same buddies are telling the same story to their girlfirneds or wives. You are a word twister. I like it
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 OMG you are so frustrating! People get roped into going to these places all the time. Ex...bachelor party. It's been probably 5 years since ive been to one. It's hanging out with the guys and having a beer...not "oh im going to take one of these girls home" No, people don't get "roped" into anything they don't really want to do, to begin with. Look, I've heard all the excuses when it comes to men and strip clubs. It's ALWAYS about the "other guys" and how *they* are the ones that want to go. Meanwhile these "other guys" are telling their girlfriends and wives that it's "you", because in that situation you are the other guy. It's an excuse men use to get away with disrespecting their real life partners for an hour with a stripper. I know other men that have completely avoided going to a strip club and instead went camping or golfing. They didn't need to celebrate the marriage of their friend by indulging in other women. They were able to keep the respect of their own partners at home intact and do something they could bond over together that didn't include beer and boobs. It's amazing that some men are fully capable human beings able to bond over other things then strippers, but it's possible. Men go to strip clubs because they want to. Not because of their friends. You all just use each other as excuses and point the finger that it was really "that guy over there" that wanted to do it, while "that guy over there" is saying the same thing about you to his partner. And despite having great girlfriends and wives at home, or despite getting married, you give your own partners a little slap in their face by finding ways to cheat them out of the respect they deserve so you can enjoy some beer and boobs. You are a word twister. I like it I am not a word twister. I am just pointing out the inconsistancies in yours. But I liked the advice you gave to a girl on another thread so I don't think you're all bad yourself. But usually when it comes to strippers and such..I find that too many men are more willing to disrepect their loved ones for a few moments with a stripper then not. That's the reality.
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Nope! If your closest friends decide they are going to a strip club then you dont say im going golfing (Which are usually not open during strip club hours). But anywho...there is nothing disrespectful to your mate if she knows you are there and you are just talking with your friends and barely paying attention to the dancers. The problem is when you go there regularly and dancers talk to you like you are someone and you think you are going to get somewhere but all they want is a repeat customer.
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I am not a word twister. I am just pointing out the inconsistancies in yours. But I liked the advice you gave to a girl on another thread so I don't think you're all bad yourself. Are you stalking me?
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 (edited) I just love the feeling of being approached by a women. In reality that's truly not the case. I'm just tired of doing all the work so I guess I sort've resorted to a fantasy type scenario. It seems like ever since my break from my previous relationship I have lost quite a bit of confidence in approaching women. Edited September 1, 2011 by cloud10
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 You will get it back, my man! You are just a young twit. You have plenty of time. It's like a changeup...sometimes you can't control that ****er even though you know what you need to do. There will be plenty of times where you are in "the zone" and no lady will stand a chance
April72 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 How are you gonna know if the baby is yours??? That is what you need to make sure of if she comes up pregnant. And NOT because she is a dancer.... but because this doesn't sound like a committed, exclusive arrangement.
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 (edited) Yea we have only hung out twice outside of her work, any I barely even go up there as it is even if she does work there. She's only been dancing for 2 months. I know the money is probably good but maybe she COULD change for someone? Anyway it's not serious now but I would like to think that with a little time and effort, I dunno I'd like to hope that things could work. Edited September 1, 2011 by cloud10
grkBoy Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 So currently I'm talking to this dancer chick that I met at the club. We went out for the first time few nights ago and seen a late night movie. Cut the movie short because it sucked and went back to my place. So she stayed and one thing led to another. I end up banging her with no condom and she says she has no birth control. Pretty sure I didn't pull out in time. Yea I know I screwed up there. My thing is I don't know if I can handle the fact that she has so many guy friends and of course I feel like I'm competing in a way. Keep in mind I just met this chick like a little over a month ago. I just think her texting while with me is a little excessive. Anyway I think I might need to ask if she misses her period or whatever here soon too. *facepalm* Seriously. I won't even dive into the possibility that she might end up preggers with your baby. I think you went for a stripper, a hot woman who gets the attention of loads of guys. You walked into that, and should have known better. She will have guy friends and know guys, and her job is dancing and giving attention to guys with little to no clothing on. If you can't handle that, then you better cut this off and move on. This is like when I see guys date bartenders, cocktail waitresses, event promoters, and gogo dancers. They love how she's a hot looking sexy girl who's outgoing, but then can't handle it that she's got other men in her life...despite that she's giving most of it all to the one jealous boy. Bear in mind she slept with you...if she wants to keep seeing you...then it means she wants you over the other guys.
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 *facepalm* a hot woman who gets the attention of loads of guys. maybe you shouldn't tell him that part
stillafool Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Honestly I don't think she even has a clue. As far as her texting other dudes - Until I find out about the constant flow of text messages. It's going to stop sooner or later if we are going to hang out. How do you know it is "dudes" that she is texting? It could be her grandma.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Nope! If your closest friends decide they are going to a strip club then you dont say im going golfing (Which are usually not open during strip club hours). But anywho...there is nothing disrespectful to your mate if she knows you are there and you are just talking with your friends and barely paying attention to the dancers. The problem is when you go there regularly and dancers talk to you like you are someone and you think you are going to get somewhere but all they want is a repeat customer. Again, you're not really saying anything that I haven't heard before about justifying disrespecting the woman at home. *shrug*. No one said anything about golfing having to be open the same hours as strip clubs. Some men still decide to go there to celebrate a marriage then strip clubs. Despite the different hours! Amazing isn't it. Further, there are plenty of regular bars open the same hours as strip clubs. Excuses, excuse, excuses. Men go to strip clubs for a reason. I'm sure your bonding there too but if it wasn't somewhat about the strippers, you would just as much go to a regular bar. Are you stalking me? How did ya know? Tour picture makes you hard to miss.
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