cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 So currently I'm talking to this dancer chick that I met at the club. We went out for the first time few nights ago and seen a late night movie. Cut the movie short because it sucked and went back to my place. So she stayed and one thing led to another. I end up banging her with no condom and she says she has no birth control. Pretty sure I didn't pull out in time. Yea I know I screwed up there. My thing is I don't know if I can handle the fact that she has so many guy friends and of course I feel like I'm competing in a way. Keep in mind I just met this chick like a little over a month ago. I just think her texting while with me is a little excessive. Anyway I think I might need to ask if she misses her period or whatever here soon too.
Emilia Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 It's rude to text while out with someone you are dating. Don't know why you are bothering with someone who has no basic manners and is high STD risk
Professor X Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 It's rude to text while out with someone you are dating. Don't know why you are bothering with someone who has no basic manners and is high STD risk Because she's hot.
Emilia Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Because she's hot. I know but I thought I would give the OP a chance
smudge21 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I think this girl has made it clear what she wants and expects from you, and I don't think it's a long lasting love fueled relationship. If you can handle just a bit of fun then go for it, you're both adults. Just try to consider the health risks. As good as she may be, is she worth dying over?
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 How do you guys know she is hot? Even the OP didn't say that
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Clearly I got caught up in the moment when we were having sex. It's done and over with - why reflect on the past? I know this relationship will probably end up bleek and go nowhere. Yet I'm willing to give it the benefit of the doubt and give it a chance. By the way she's one of the most beautiful girls I've spoken to in a while. I would post a picture but I dunno how that would go. I think my next step is to wait and find out if she might be pregnant. Honestly I don't think she even has a clue. As far as her texting other dudes - Until I find out about the constant flow of text messages. It's going to stop sooner or later if we are going to hang out.
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Also I haven't put this much effort into getting to know someone in quite sometime. I haven't had this kind've feeling for a while ( go figure ). It seems like I put in more effort than she. Considering I barely know her and I think she's a little hesitant I'm trying to be patient on that aspect. She lives about an hour from me and she works alot - So I take advantage of her days off and we chill. My thing is should I led off on the texting and seeing her maybe get her to look forward to me and add a little mystery. I feel like she's on the phone all the time though - I get alot of short answers aswell.
Emilia Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Just be careful with your heart. I'm sure she is very beautiful and kudos to you for nailing her but she could turn out to be fickle
Emilia Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 How do you guys know she is hot? Even the OP didn't say that The clues are in the original post: exotic dancer, lots of guys texting her, the OP is dating her even though she isn't really gf material. She has to be hot
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 I understand and there is a Age difference. I'm 25 and she's 19. So there is obviously a difference in the level of maturity. Although I think she acts pretty level headed. I'll give an update soon.
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Also Emilia I think you really nailed it and I'm in denial. Maybe she's not girlfriend material - and I want to see what kind've strings I can pull. I dunno
Professor X Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 The clues are in the original post: exotic dancer, lots of guys texting her, the OP is dating her even though she isn't really gf material. She has to be hot Emilia is a clever one!
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 The clues are in the original post: exotic dancer, lots of guys texting her, the OP is dating her even though she isn't really gf material. She has to be hot Not necessarily! Did you know there are guys in the world who will sleep with anyone? It's a fact. Lots of guys texting her...clients. Exotic dancer....I have seen plenty who were exotic in the fact that they may have crawled out of a swamp. Oh and they rub their boobs on guys faces for an entire dollar! Hot!
TigerCub Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Hey Cloud10 Well first off: 1. Get an STD test. (not because she's a stripper, but because you had unprotected sex) 2. Even if she turns out to be pregnant - get a paternity test (no guarantee its even yours) 3. If she doesn't seem as interested in you as your are in her - don't go chasing her like a little puppy - I'm sure she's used to that, so cool it for a while and see if she comes to you. 4. If you do end up dating her, be careful. I've known a guy that's stripper obsessed, dates them and stuff, but once he develops feeling for them, he starts getting annoyed at their profession - and suddenly it bothers him that his girl is "getting molested for money" (his words not mine) but just watch out for that - if she becomes your gf, would you be ok with the idea that she's grinding naked on gross men that gotta pay for it, or doing extras, or doing other girls in front of those gross men for more money - Hey! - I'm just telling you all my friend told me. If you wanna just have fun with this girl, go nuts, its your call - just be safe. Enjoy
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Thanks for the wise words. I had dated a stripper for over a year a while back. So I know what I'm getting myself into. Also she stated she's not going to dance for much longer. So that's a plus.
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 this is her this is me . You be the judge.
Emilia Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Not necessarily! Did you know there are guys in the world who will sleep with anyone? It's a fact. Lots of guys texting her...clients. Exotic dancer....I have seen plenty who were exotic in the fact that they may have crawled out of a swamp. Oh and they rub their boobs on guys faces for an entire dollar! Hot! I'd imagine those guys don't post on LS like the OP did. I also think a lot of men think rubbing boobs on their face is pretty hot
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I'd imagine those guys don't post on LS like the OP did. I also think a lot of men think rubbing boobs on their face is pretty hot When she did it for 30 other slobs before her? Sorry I just don't get the whole strip club attraction. I'll go and have fun but there is no arousal from it in my opinion
Emilia Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 this is her this is me . You be the judge. You both look good. It's nothing to do with looks, she is just really young. It's hard to imagine any 19 year-old would stick around. Don't rely on what we are saying here though, just make sure you keep your emotions under control and don't fall for her hard
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Cloud - Not very cool posting her picture here without her permission. Just because she is a stripper doesn't mean she doesn't deserve respect. Would you want her posting your picture to a of you somewhere you didn't know and making comments?
Emilia Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 When she did it for 30 other slobs before her? Sorry I just don't get the whole strip club attraction. I'll go and have fun but there is no arousal from it in my opinion That has nothing to do with this thread though or whether the girl is good looking or not.
Author cloud10 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Personally I wouldn't care and I know she doesn't.
madjac74 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 That has nothing to do with this thread though or whether the girl is good looking or not. Ummm yes it does or the OP wouldn't have referenced the fact that she is an exotic dancer. And I said nothing about her looks, I'm just refering to the OP's concern that she gets a lot of attention and I'm explaining why
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