shjoll Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 in the beginning i told my new bf that i dont want kids but during sex he kept sayig he wanted to knock me up. this turned me off. what should I do to let him know how i feel
ja123 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 That sounds very aggressive and threatening, though it could be a part of his dirty play talk. Go out for a walk with him (neutral territory). Ask him if he'd like to have kids someday? If he does, then you may want to consider breaking it off; or, at least mutually realize that there's an expiry date on the relationship and just try to to get emotionally involved. If that's possible?!!!
Author shjoll Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 he told me he could go both ways. he told me he would love to get a vasectomy and then sometimes he says he wants more kids because he is 36 now and finishing playing games and feels like he would be more available. he already has a 12 year old and and a 16 year old. im like why now. im 22 and im so sure i dont want kids
Professor X Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 he told me he could go both ways. he told me he would love to get a vasectomy and then sometimes he says he wants more kids because he is 36 now and finishing playing games and feels like he would be more available. he already has a 12 year old and and a 16 year old. im like why now. im 22 and im so sure i dont want kids You might wanna consider breaking it off with him. You are 14 years apart and it seems you're both in different places in your life. Also, knocking you up will most likely tie you to him permanently - maybe that's what he's trying to do. Either way, those stuff usually don't end up well.
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