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[xgabrial66]

I'm not sure where to start so I guess at the beginningthe best. When Tonya and I met she was living with her aunt and was working at Waffle House and had no car or much else for that matter.

All the clothes she had fit in a marlboro duffle bag. She had my heart from the first time that I laid eyes on her. I had a good job paying $11.00 p.h. and a nice house with things going real good for me.

It was no time at all before she had moved in with me. She had been living in Colorado for the last couple of years and had been doing drugs and basicly wasting her life away.

Her children had been taken away by their father who had married into some money after moving to Oklahoma and leaving Tonya to take care of their three daughters (Eva,Krista andTess).

Tonya had only gotten to the seventh grade in school so it was not that hard for the girls dad to take the kids and the money he married into financed the whole thing.

Tonya decided to move to Florida with her ailing aunt to assist her with things but it only took a week or two for her to ask me to come get her and of course I did. She moved back in with me and she found a decent jobkind of far from where we lived. Like I stated earlier she had no car so I ended up taking her to work and picking her up after.

All the while I still maintained my computer repair busisness.

This went on for a few months and two houses later. I ended up finding her a nice 97 mitisibishi mirage. I paid $1000.00 for it after hagling the guy down from $2500.00. Tonya used to use crystal meth when she was in colorado and she started to use it here but I told her that I would not allow that around me so she started to drink quite a bit. It got to where she would drink and think about her girls and get angry.

It began as crying and yelling and escalated to breaking things and finally got to be a violent situation were she phisiclly attacked me. I had evan gotten her an attorney to try to get her some visitation with her girls in Oklahoma. That cost me $750.00.

After one night of her drinking she got violent with me hitting me in the face several times screaming for me to hit her. Well I snapped and slapped her. I then called her mother who lived a few miles from us and told her to come and get her. She did. A couple of hours later the police was at my door and I went to jail for domestic abuse.

I spent two days in jail and it cost me $355.00 and the label of a woman beater.

Her mother who was married to a man for seventeen years who beat her on a regular basis was the catilist behind it all. Her mother took me to civil court to pursue a restrainig order on me. That cost me $650.00 and a year restraing order. All the while Tonya was calling me,coming over to my house and having sex and telling me how much she loved me.

The car I bought was in my name and on my insurance. She was living with her cousin who lived next door to her grandmother. After work one night Tonya stopped at a bar not far from where I lived and was drinking with some people she worked with. She got drunk and called me to come get her because she did not want to drive.

I went to get her and as I was arriving at the bar she was leaving in the car. I got behind her but before I could catch up to her she flew around a corner too fast and went off the road.

When I got to the vehicle I got her out and seen that she had some guy in there with her. All the while we were supposed to be working things out. RIGHT!! By the time the police arrived she was passed out in my car and I told the officer that I was driving and the other guy was in my car following me to his house. I saved her ass from getting a DWI that night. I should have let her go to jail.

I had to wait for a tow truck to get there so I told that guy(matt) to take her to my house and wait for me there. As the cop was taking me to my house after the tow truck came and got what was left of the car I saw my car at the same bar all this crap started at. I also seen this guys truck there also. I told the cop to drop me there and he did.

When I got up to my car the guy opened the window and had a strange look on his face. Tonya was nacked anfd curled up on the passenger seat and my console in my car was lifted and the drivers seat was scooted back. Any guesses to what had happened? So much drama and crap she put me through and yet I still miss her. Am I the crazy one? Why do I still miss her? At times I want to kill her and other times I want to have her back in my life.

How can someone say they love you and they treat you like she treated me? When I think about it I get sick to my stomach.

[sweetbilly]

Gosh, i thought my problems were bad. If i were you, i'd find someone else. She sounds like bad news. I will say this though, the drugs are what's probably doing this to her. They have a lot of influence over a persons emotional state. Sometimes they can't control themselves.

[befuddled11]

She's a drug addict and she was from the start. She helped bring 3 little girls into the world, all the while, being a drug addict (thereby, hardly a good mother). It's no wonder she lost her children.

 

She's abused you, used you, lied about you, twisted things around so that you're the one who was charged with assault, she's screwed around on you (likely for drug money)...and she's wracked up the car you bought her. And you LIED to the police (which in itself is a criminal offense) and took the blame for her accident? Honey...the girl DESERVED a DWI.....and to be thrown in jail because someone like her could have easily KILLED some innocent person out there on the road.

 

You're obviously addicted to her, because nobody in their right mind would want to remain in love with someone who's this messed up. Don't you think you deserve better? Thank God her ex husband has her children..did you ever think of that? She sounds completely unfit to be a Mom. Kids don't deserve a drug addict-user-alcoholic-abuser.