Glove_slap Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 9 months no contact, 14 months broken up, she rebounded with a rich drug dealer bf a month after we broke up. She's still with him. We were together for three years. Classic case of good girl going bad from influences by her girlfriends. I doubt I would take her back because she's already taste the "good" life of living in a condo and being taken out every day plus designer shopping. I'm just a kid from the projects. He just turned 22 she turned 19 a few months back, I'm 20. We were first loves... Will time ever heal the hole in my heart, soul and body? Will I ever stop wondering if she misses me the way I miss her? Will I ever stop missing the old her, which chronologically be the young her?
silly_panda Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Hey man... It's OK to missed someone you love and care about... But you have to love yourself first before you love anyone... You got to move on already and stop thinking about her... Really... Thinking about her frequently won't do you any good... She is happy enjoying her life and you are here feeling sad... You are only 20 rite..? You are still young... Great future ahead of you... And don't ever feel that you are nobody... You are also very capable of giving good life to the girl that you love (her or other girls in the future)... Just work on yourself... Don't you ever look down on yourself... You are who you think you are... So stand up straight and be the guy that girls' desire - confident, stable, etc... This is your first love, there will be more coming... When I first got dumped (by my 3rd ex - was my first time being dumped and I was 19), I felt very miserable and I cried everyday after the break up for one whole year... I'm not kidding you... But as I moved on and find someone special to me, now when I look back at my 3rd ex, I found myself that I wasn't even in love with her... It was something else, maybe it was lust or something... I'm not saying that in your case is not love... I'm just saying you will get over it and you really gotta work on yourself... So... Hang in there man...
magnus mateo Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Now is the time for you to work on yourself and think about what you want in your next relationship. Find ways to keep busy and keep your mind off your ex. Focus on you. Build your confidence. With these suggestions and with time, you will be get over your ex. You will be proud of yourself. Hope this helps. Good luck!
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