Munchkin Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Baby daddy is back! So after being MIA for almost 4 months my ex decided to tex me out the blue to see his son. It has now been 3 weeks and I have to say that things have been going well. I wanted to give him the opportunity to be able to spend time with his son if he was serious about it this time around. he has come to see his son from 2 to 3 times a week. At first I wasn't sure if he was contacting me for his son or because he wanted to get back with me. As of now I don't see any intentions of him even trying to get back with me which is cool with me. I cant lie that I still care about him very much but in reality I know things will never work out. I could see that he feels extremely comfortable around me and sometimes I feel him flirting with me and there has been some type of physical contact (not sex but more like tickling). we used to fight a lot all the time but somehow I see him trying to be a good dad and agreeing to a lot of the things he would refuse to do before. I think that sometimes I'm getting mix signals or maybe its just me looking too much into it. I would love to work things out because I still care and love him and because I would love for my son to grow up with his two parents. Not sure what to think of this situation and don't want to do anything that might jeopardise what could happen. Am i looking too much into this? should I just move on? should I wait? not sure what to do. I need some advice. Perhaps someone has been through a similar situation. He has messed up big time but I am willing to give him an opportunity if not to be in a relationship then to at least be a good father to our son. I found he is seeing someone on the side but still acting flirty with me...
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