D-Lish Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 (edited) Don't feel sad D-Lish, I'll let you drive my new BMW after we get married. Drive it? I think you meant to say "buy one for me":lmao: Hey D, trick your ride I would be the talk of the town! I'm going to have to give "Bob" a call! No, apparently her and I are in a relationship, and although it's very open, marriage wasn't something we discussed It's Friday night! You must be on your date right now! Should I consider this cheating on me???? Edited September 3, 2011 by D-Lish
Author wezol Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 Well guys. Back from my date.... It went okay, picked her up, and she actually made the comment that she like my truck, she likes old cars and the way the exhaust smells . Huge brownie points right from the start. We went and ate at Babes, which was okay, she started showing qualities that my ex wife showed. Judgmental of other girls she didn't even know, and I got this huge vibe that she wasnt over her ex and talked about him more than I liked, and she so showed some insecure qualities that I just don't have the patience for after dealing with insecurities from my ex wife for 5 yrs. We wen to the drive in and saw the "zoo keeper". I had brought some camping chairs and I backed the truck up, opened the back sliding window and tuned the radio to whatever station was playing the movie. We sat in the bed, talked about life and watched the movie. She has a lot of baggage with her family and doesn't talk to them much, and from what it sounded like, it's mainly due to her and some things she did yet she can't forgive them. I dunno, family is a HUGE thing to me so that was a little off putting. I mean I understand if she was in the right and her family was just messed up, but that wasn't entirely the case (if course I did not say that to her). Either way, I dropped her off at the house after, gave her a hug, thanked her for coming out with me and left. I think there were just too many red flags from the get go, and I made that mistake once already and it bit me in the ass 5 yrs later. Dont think I'll be asking for a second date. Oh and d-lish, were in an open relationship, so i don't think there is any cheating . Marriage though, well....I'm willing to be your "other man" so that's cool.
D-Lish Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Well guys. Back from my date.... It went okay, picked her up, and she actually made the comment that she like my truck, she likes old cars and the way the exhaust smells . Huge brownie points right from the start. We went and ate at Babes, which was okay, she started showing qualities that my ex wife showed. Judgmental of other girls she didn't even know, and I got this huge vibe that she wasnt over her ex and talked about him more than I liked, and she so showed some insecure qualities that I just don't have the patience for after dealing with insecurities from my ex wife for 5 yrs. We wen to the drive in and saw the "zoo keeper". I had brought some camping chairs and I backed the truck up, opened the back sliding window and tuned the radio to whatever station was playing the movie. We sat in the bed, talked about life and watched the movie. She has a lot of baggage with her family and doesn't talk to them much, and from what it sounded like, it's mainly due to her and some things she did yet she can't forgive them. I dunno, family is a HUGE thing to me so that was a little off putting. I mean I understand if she was in the right and her family was just messed up, but that wasn't entirely the case (if course I did not say that to her). Either way, I dropped her off at the house after, gave her a hug, thanked her for coming out with me and left. I think there were just too many red flags from the get go, and I made that mistake once already and it bit me in the ass 5 yrs later. Dont think I'll be asking for a second date. Oh and d-lish, were in an open relationship, so i don't think there is any cheating . Marriage though, well....I'm willing to be your "other man" so that's cool. Is it possible you're still a little jaded and not quite ready to date just yet? How long have you been divorced for? I found every excuse in the book to NOT like anyone after I left my exH.
johan Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 (edited) It doesn't just sit there either, I work it, and work it hard I think that was staged. That concrete was borrowed (in fact I think it looks familiar). And you probably don't even know the dog's name. You're going to have to do better than that if you want to impress the women around here. Edited September 3, 2011 by johan
Author wezol Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 (edited) Is it possible you're still a little jaded and not quite ready to date just yet? How long have you been divorced for? I found every excuse in the book to NOT like anyone after I left my exH. Good question. Been separated since June, divorce was legally final just over a month ago, but I kinda checked out if the marriage about a year ago when I realized nothing would change. Just took me a long time to take that final step. I'm not dating to look for a serious relationship right now, because I don't really want one, just for fun really, and to put myself back out there. I think that was staged. That concrete was borrowed (in fact I think it looks familiar). And you probably don't even know the dog's name. You're going to have to do better than that if you want to impress the women around here. Not concrete, it's rocks, and it should look familiar cause I stole it all from you. Also, could you do me a favor? I did forget your dogs name, little sh*t doesn't listen. BTW, I still owe you money for letting me use your stuff to rig my truck up like that. Edited September 3, 2011 by wezol
Art_Critic Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Send it off to carhill, let him cram a small block in it hahahaha... Carhill might have something to say about talking to D-lish about that.. he might say his is just an average block
D-Lish Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Good question. Been separated since June, divorce was legally final just over a month ago, but I kinda checked out if the marriage about a year ago when I realized nothing would change. Just took me a long time to take that final step. I'm not dating to look for a serious relationship right now, because I don't really want one, just for fun really, and to put myself back out there. Not concrete, it's rocks, and it should look familiar cause I stole it all from you. Also, could you do me a favor? I did forget your dogs name, little sh*t doesn't listen. BTW, I still owe you money for letting me use your stuff to rig my truck up like that. Makes sense. I can tell you from being divorced myself that it takes more than a couple of years to get yourself back in the right direction. Keep dating, keep doing what you're doing. And you know what? If you get busy working on your truck, I'll bring you out a beer and some cheesies. I'll even sit there drinking your beer and eating your cheesies and be interested in what you're doing! hahahaha... Carhill might have something to say about talking to D-lish about that.. he might say his is just an average block Judging by the last picture Carhill sent me on my I-Phone- his "block" won't fit in my Kia. "We're going to need a bigger boat".
Trimmer Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Haha, I like that you posted a picture of the engine...on a love forum. Only a guy would that. Hey, one of our foremost contemporary male poets mixes cars and love quite eloquently: Wendy let me in, I wanna be your friend, I wanna guard your dreams and visions, Just wrap your legs 'round these velvet rims and strap your hands 'cross my engines...
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