Beachgirl8 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Ugh... I just finished sending this guy a bunch of text messages that I really wish I didnt. I wont do it anymore tonight and I'm positive he won't respond. What should I do in the morning? I don't want to feel this crappy anymore. I need a plan.
Author Beachgirl8 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 It might not sound like it but I'm really hurting. I need a positive plan for tomorrow so I can sleep tonight.
Author Beachgirl8 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Thanks Glinda. I reposted prematurely. I'm just depressed and sad and don't know how to deal with it, and I think I'm being a bit dramatic. I just dont know how to stop. I don't understand why anyone would be so cold to me. I am a nice person in general.
Ayla Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 what did the messages say?? Did he not reply at all? I did something somewhat similar-although everyone is telling me, I am worrying over nothing. In my case though - he did respond.
joeyanna Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Ugh... I just finished sending this guy a bunch of text messages that I really wish I didnt. I wont do it anymore tonight and I'm positive he won't respond. What should I do in the morning? I don't want to feel this crappy anymore. I need a plan. Don't do anything more concerning the guy for now, the more you do, the more freaked out he'll get, the more needy you'll seem, and he'll back off further. Leave it, even if its a few days then maybe try again if you've heard nothing but be calm, be cool, don't try and apologise for what you've said in your texts, just keep it light - show him that you don't NEED to hear from him (because you don't), remain high value and confident, remember, he's lucky to have you in his life. In the meantime distract yourself, as Glinda said, do something lovely for yourself, be kind to yourself and enjoy your day despite how you feel. Remember, we've all done it, I certainly have and if the guy is worth anything he won't be bothered by what you did and if not then is he really worth shedding tears over? Good luck and take care x
Ayla Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Don't do anything more concerning the guy for now, the more you do, the more freaked out he'll get, the more needy you'll seem, and he'll back off further. Leave it, even if its a few days then maybe try again if you've heard nothing but be calm, be cool, don't try and apologise for what you've said in your texts, just keep it light - show him that you don't NEED to hear from him (because you don't), remain high value and confident, remember, he's lucky to have you in his life. In the meantime distract yourself, as Glinda said, do something lovely for yourself, be kind to yourself and enjoy your day despite how you feel. Remember, we've all done it, I certainly have and if the guy is worth anything he won't be bothered by what you did and if not then is he really worth shedding tears over? Good luck and take care x I'm going to take this on board too Joeyanna! Great advice!
ja123 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 What to do in respect to him? Do nothing! With respect to you, do something you like that makes you feel good about yourself that doesn't concern dating! I second that!
joeyanna Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I'm going to take this on board too Joeyanna! Great advice! You're welcome Ayla, its taken me a while to realise it myself x
Author Beachgirl8 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Well I didn't do anything more. No he did not reply. I suppose it really is not possible to be friends with this person. What a waste of time. I don't want him back or anything. Theres nothing to get back. I was just having a bad day and would have liked to talk to the person I spent the majority of last year with. It's so frustrating.
visualbasicide Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I was just having a bad day and would have liked to talk to the person I spent the majority of last year with. It's so frustrating. I don't know if this passes or if you just get used to it, since I know exactly what your talking about but I still have my days. It will lessen as time goes on.
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