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lies do not ruin relationship. the truth does =(


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I had a boyfriend for 6 months now. We've met at the office which we have been working together for 2 years. I just resigned and got another job. He has been living in a condo apartment that the company provided for their employees.

 

A friend of mine told me about the girl he kissed in the apartment. And yes, I know the girl he kissed, she's also my ex-officemate and a close friend during my stay there. I haven't talked to the guy yet and confronted him about the sitch.... But i felt bad about things I've heard from a reliable source...

 

I don't know what to do... I know I can handle to talk to him but I'm in doubt if I can handle the situation after knowing what's true or not......... Any piece of advise?

 

I stay put and calm until i get the chance to talk to him in person...... I'm afraid the truth hurts.....

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Is this still rumour or do you know it for a fact? If he means a lot and up until this you trusted him, then it's worth asking him rather than instantly judging him.

 

Just talk to him, ask for the truth and then decide on what to do from there. You can't just sit around waiting as that will only make you feel even worse and all the emotions will build up.

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hi. =) thanks for the advise. yes i'll be meeting him up tonight. im actually want to talk to him in person, though he already knew that but still clueless of what i've heard.... i'll update this post after the talk.......

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