SO DEPRESSED Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 Hey. Ive been a long time lurker and now I need your help. Im 19 and I am dieing. I have a very rare blood disease and I will die before I am 25. Now here is where you guys come in. There is this girl I really really like. She is one of my friends ex's. She is one of the most beautiful people I know. No matter how bad i feel the minute i see her, i feel so much better. She is the only light in my future. We are really good friends. But thats all we are. I want to change that but I dont know how. I dont want it to be weird. I mean I love her with all of my heart and all, but I need to find someone. I want her to be it. I dont know how to talk to her though, I dont want it to be weird should she not have the same feelings. I want to keep her as a friend at all costs. She is the only thing that keeps me going. I really dont know what to do. Any help is much appreciated.
helping Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 Well, why don't you start by improving your friendship with her. As you get closer to her, you'll be more able to figure out the best way to talk about starting a deeper relationship. It's hard not to be scared and depressed, but unfortunately depression isn't a very attractive trait in people. Ya know what I mean? You don't want to seem like a "downer". I wish you the best of luck.
manderbug Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 That is an unfortunate situation...but you are probably starting to realize what's important to you and that includes her. She should be flattered to know this. As far as a romance goes, she may feel similar, but is perhaps suppressing her feelings to risk the heartache that will eventually ensue. Regardles, you should let her know how you feel and just accept if she is not on the same page. At least you have said your peace.
Papillon Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 I'm with Manderbug on this. Tell her how you feel, but be prepared for the possiblity that she does not want it "that way". But if she's really special, your fiendship can only grow closer. All the very best of luck to you!
SO DEPRESSED Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 I am starting to see her everyday now. This time of the year is really hard on me emotionally and she is coming over every day to help me. I think I am going to start to ask her where she thinks things are going. I will keep everyone updated
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