AD1980 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I hear you lady.Some of my friends are married to short guys[not shorter then them per se but shorter then average] and they just feel no lust for these men at all but couldnt find a tall men whod settle down I urge ladies dont settle for men on the short side becasue you think its all you can get,you'll regret it when you're married to em and look at them and feel no passion or lust Hold out for those tall gems because they are SO worth it:love: Im starting to think ive dodged a bullet not attracting women..Self absorbed entitled princesses.. A lot of you are ugly inside
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I hear you lady.Some of my friends are married to short guys[not shorter then them per se but shorter then average] and they just feel no lust for these men at all but couldnt find a tall men whod settle down I urge ladies dont settle for men on the short side becasue you think its all you can get,you'll regret it when you're married to em and look at them and feel no passion or lust Hold out for those tall gems because they are SO worth it:love: True. A former Physical education teacher of mine is 6 feet tall; he's 5'8''. If it wasn't for him making double her wage, she'd be gone a long time. BTW. how do you know, she's a gold digger? She's very hot, and blonde. Tall, and young. Dating an ant? a very ugly ant?
aj22one Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I hear you lady.Some of my friends are married to short guys[not shorter then them per se but shorter then average] and they just feel no lust for these men at all but couldnt find a tall men whod settle down I urge ladies dont settle for men on the short side becasue you think its all you can get,you'll regret it when you're married to em and look at them and feel no passion or lust Hold out for those tall gems because they are SO worth it What exactly is a gem? And how many women/men will actually get one? I'm 6'2" so this really isn't personalized about height. But I see all kinds of threads on this board where women complain about guys with too much experience, not enough experience, are too short, are too muscly, not muscled enough, don't make enough money, are workaholics, too clingy, not ready to settle down, etc... Do people actually think that perfect people exist?
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Im starting to think ive dodged a bullet not attracting women..Self absorbed entitled princesses.. A lot of you are ugly inside Vagina makes you forget about such things, though. Have you ever heard a man who went into space talk about the amazing sensations he experienced? Vagina is much better because it provides the same sensations. Without having to study and train for decades.
fortyninethousand322 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 What exactly is a gem? And how many women/men will actually get one? I'm 6'2" so this really isn't personalized about height. But I see all kinds of threads on this board where women complain about guys with too much experience, not enough experience, are too short, are too muscly, not muscled enough, don't make enough money, are workaholics, too clingy, not ready to settle down, etc... Do people actually think that perfect people exist? I'm curious about this too. I've long believed that you have to be near perfect to get a girl to be interested in you. Some of the posts on this board validate that belief, while several others call that into question.
Elysian Powder Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I'm curious about this too. I've long believed that you have to be near perfect to get a girl to be interested in you. Some of the posts on this board validate that belief, while several others call that into question. You're alive because your ancestors had the ballz to look at the lion's jaws and laugh; you can sure as hell approach a woman and try your luck. Approach as many women as you can. You'll get laid; maybe not by a 18 year old Jennifer Lopez, but you'll have a woman to sleep with you. You think too much about this and that. Thinking is a waste of time. Grab what you want. Doesn't matter if you don't catch it. At least you'll be respected for doing what most guys are afraid of; of taking a shot at it.
Bj099235 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I don't think the height thing is really fair. It can't be changed.
Woggle Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 I hear you lady.Some of my friends are married to short guys[not shorter then them per se but shorter then average] and they just feel no lust for these men at all but couldnt find a tall men whod settle down I urge ladies dont settle for men on the short side becasue you think its all you can get,you'll regret it when you're married to em and look at them and feel no passion or lust Hold out for those tall gems because they are SO worth it:love: And people wonder why so many men are afraid of marriage.
Cracker Jack Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Dude, Woggle. She (really a he using an alt) is a friggin troll!! You can't use posts like that to validate anything. Posts like that are made to piss/discourage certain people off on purpose, as I'm sure you can clearly see based on how it was written. It's ignorable.
AD1980 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 (edited) I'm interested in how far trying to shame women for their preferences has gotten you. Does it ever feel like you're progressing? If so I would love to know how (namely trying to shame women) has improved your quality of life. Trying to shame women? lol some women on here have posted really harsh stuff yet im a monster for repsonding to one who basically said nobody likes shorter Men and people shouldnt settle for ugly short guys? And ask any women ive ever come in contract with and most will say how good a guy iam..spare me the bs Edited September 2, 2011 by AD1980
SteveC80 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Trying to shame women? lol some women on here have posted really harsh stuff yet im a monster for repsonding to one who basically said nobody likes shorter Men and people shouldnt settle for ugly short guys? And ask any women ive ever come in contract with and most will say how good a guy iam..spare me the bs Apaprently only women are allowed to vent here and show some raw frustration even if they dont mean everything they say Dont mind nate hes always brown nosed women on here and acts like they're innocent harmless creatures incapable of wrong.I fear for when he actually gets burned by a women and his world gets turned upside down because he thinks women are infallable
Author FrustratedStandards Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 Buddy, vagina is far more valuable than penis. Women can pick whoever they want. I wish they'd just admit that a tall guy gets 'em wet instead of all of this protection nonsense, but what are you gonna do about it. Thank you! She may not need one, but it doesn't mean she's not wired to want one. Women and men have evolved with characteristics that the other find sexually attractive. You're pretty much telling her to explain her attraction, upon which she will not be able to do because its based on something in her genetic makeup that goes back many many many years. generally want a talle man, men typically want a smaller female. Exactly! Thank you! It's like asking a guy "well why do you need a feminine woman when a butch one will do just as well?" I'd like to see how they would answer that one. Like I said, we are naturally attracted to certain things. Bigness in a guy is one, and feminine in a girl is another. If any man disagree I would love to hear he isn't picky so he would go for a butch, much like how they complain that women won't go for short.
Richard Friedman Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Other than bad hygiene, any turn off particular to your tastes can be overlooked if the person is confident. For instance, if short hair on a female is unattractive, but she carries herself with this confidence and sex appeal, you will overlook it, right? Or if a short man is a turn off, but he carries himself and presents himself with this great confidence and smile, the shortness becomes secondary. Agreed? I just find that confidence can work wonders. I guess the same for the opposite applies, you have have a gorgeous sex kitten or drool-worthy man, but if they have no self-esteem and are very insecure, they become less attractive. Typical feel good NONSENSE.
Stung Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 I hear you lady.Some of my friends are married to short guys[not shorter then them per se but shorter then average] and they just feel no lust for these men at all but couldnt find a tall men whod settle down I urge ladies dont settle for men on the short side becasue you think its all you can get,you'll regret it when you're married to em and look at them and feel no passion or lust Hold out for those tall gems because they are SO worth it:love: You're still at it? Don't you people get tired of falling for this obvious, one-note troll? I particularly like the post history where "she" forgets who "she" is logged in as and starts bitching about how entitled women are . Anyway, I haven't really been following this thread, I actually clicked in here by accident and then laughed when I saw the familiar "face". But for the record, since there's a lot of emotional talk swirling about height, I'm a six foot tall woman who's had shorter boyfriends, and felt plenty of passion and lust for them. Why would I have made them my boyfriend if I didn't feel passion and lust for them? Does not compute. And no, I never had trouble finding tall men, either. Sure, there are women who have height issues as a dealbreaker, but there are women who are attracted/not attracted to all kinds of different traits.
EnigmaticClarity Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 But for the record, since there's a lot of emotional talk swirling about height, I'm a six foot tall woman who's had shorter boyfriends, and felt plenty of passion and lust for them. Why would I have made them my boyfriend if I didn't feel passion and lust for them? Does not compute. And no, I never had trouble finding tall men, either. This may not apply to you, but in general, tall women might make someone shorter their boyfriend without feeling passion and lust because being a tall woman is like being a short guy--it limits your options. Many men--perhaps even most men--simply won't even consider you because you're tall. As I said, that's just a generalization. You may have a model's body and a sparkling personality and can land ten guys a night, yet it doesn't make the statement less true--men will still rule you out due to height.
rafallus Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Many men--perhaps even most men--simply won't even consider you because you're tall. So it's insecurity. Therefore, it doesn't end on just a height difference.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 My own brother is 5'8 and growing up all I heard from my friends how hot he was.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 How is 5'8" short? That's pretty medium. If those are the standards for dating, no wonder I'm single. And I'm 5'10"!
EnigmaticClarity Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 How is 5'8" short? That's pretty medium. If 5' 8" is short, a B-cup is flat-chested and 6" is underendowed. It's only short to people with very high standards.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 How is 5'8" short? That's pretty medium. If those are the standards for dating, no wonder I'm single. And I'm 5'10"! No one's ever described my brother as medium. 5'8 isn't that different from 5'7. I'm attracted to both tall and short guys. I love Jon Stewart and Seth Green. But I also like Andy Pettite.
OnyxSnowfall Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 (edited) No one's ever described my brother as medium. 5'8 isn't that different from 5'7. I'm attracted to both tall and short guys. I love Jon Stewart and Seth Green. But I also like Andy Pettite. 5'8" is much different from 5'7". Also, you mentioned "growing up" in your earlier reply... that would explain something, too. A grown woman is far less likely to be interested in a "shorter" man than a "girl" is. So unless these friends of yours were women who were complimenting your brother... Shorter men just seem "boyish"... It's normal for "girls" to like "boys". But for "women" to like "boys"... probably something a little screwy in their head. Just saying. And unless you've met Jon Stewart and have been around him to know if you're truly attracted to him or his "accomplishments" etc, that's a silly comparison. He is still essentially a stranger. I don't know who Seth Green is so... leaving that one alone. nevertheless, SUCCESSFUL short men are far different than a random short male stranger who shares basic anonymity etc with, millions. Edited September 2, 2011 by OnyxSnowfall
EnigmaticClarity Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 It's normal for "girls" to like "boys". But for "women" to like "boys"... probably something a little screwy in their head. Just saying. And unless you've met Jon Stewart and have been around him to know if you're truly attracted to him or his "accomplishments" etc, that's a silly comparison. He is still essentially a stranger. Huh? I'm highly attracted to Jon Stewart, and I'm a completely heterosexual male. You don't have to know someone to be attracted to them...ideally, it begins before you ever talk to them. Approaches start when one person is attracted to another.
OnyxSnowfall Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Huh? I'm highly attracted to Jon Stewart, and I'm a completely heterosexual male. You don't have to know someone to be attracted to them...ideally, it begins before you ever talk to them. Approaches start when one person is attracted to another. You are sexually attracted to Jon Stewart? DO I really have to clarify, redundantly, what I mean by "attraction" This is about romantic / physical attraction.
Stung Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 This may not apply to you, but in general, tall women might make someone shorter their boyfriend without feeling passion and lust because being a tall woman is like being a short guy--it limits your options. Many men--perhaps even most men--simply won't even consider you because you're tall. As I said, that's just a generalization. You may have a model's body and a sparkling personality and can land ten guys a night, yet it doesn't make the statement less true--men will still rule you out due to height. Sure, that has happened. And so what? I have also had men rule me out because of my race/nationality/lack of religious affiliation, and I'm sure many more have changed their minds about me because of aspects of my personality over the years. This happens to everyone, on all sides, as everybody's preferences and compatibilities come into play. As I mentioned, I am six feet tall, and while some men have turned away from me because of that I've never had such a shortage of male attention that I was forced to live a lie with a man I had no attraction to and then go cry into my pillow every night, and while I personally do think I'm rather scintillating I'm no supermodel. I'm not exactly living in a vacuum, either, I know plenty of women who are almost my height--and a few who are even taller--who do okay in the romance dept. So yes, I do find assertions that tall women can't be attracted to shorter men, can't find tall men willing to settle down, and are doomed to empty lives without love to be patently absurd. It is my suggestion that any tall woman who finds herself utterly incapable of attracting a man she could potentially find reciprocal interest in should first evaluate herself more closely, to see if she is actually sabotaging herself with some emotional or psychological issue--and if that's really not the case, then perhaps she should consider moving her location. Sometimes people get trapped in little cultural mini-hells, it happens. BTW, I also have a male cousin who is about 5'3". I mean, the guy is short, way smaller than most of the guys whinging in this thread (and so, so many other threads). And sadly for my family, he is not rich and rolling around cackling gleefully in piles of gold, nor does he light his Cuban cigars with crisp $100 bills. Yet he has a MUCH more successful sexual/romantic history than many of the angry men on this board who are taller than him and like to blame their poor dating history on their height. He's amusing and smart and interesting and has excellent people skills that he spent some years working on cultivating, to give him an edge. He currently has a very cute girlfriend and has several other cute girlfriends in his past. So in that respect, I do believe confidence plays a role, yes.
EnigmaticClarity Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 As I mentioned, I am six feet tall, and while some men have turned away from me because of that I've never had such a shortage of male attention that I was forced to live a lie with a man I had no attraction to and then go cry into my pillow every night, and while I personally do think I'm rather scintillating I'm no supermodel. Not surprising, but physically, your situation does appear to roughly be the equivalent of a shorter guy--many men will turn you down just as many women will turn them down. I wonder who gets automatically ruled out more, a taller girl or a shorter guy? I'm guessing a tall girl, but I'm not sure.
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