Sweetheartt Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 Hey guys Im back lol. Um...the guy I went out w/ before called & we went out again last night to a sports bar. They dont check any ID in there so I was okay. He didnt try to kiss me this time I guess cause what happened last time at the movies but he tried to buy me drinks. I told him just 1 is fine but kept saying its no fun to have 1 drink cause he drank like 3-4 Anyway he wasnt drunk or anything so that was good but he kept putting his arm around me, complimenting on how good I smell yada yada & then I pulled away to use the bathroom so I can get my thoughts together. I felt okay to still be w/ him so I went back & chatted more. He revealed to me after like his 5th drink that he just broke up with some girl last month because she was no fun. Huh? Idk, this feels weird to me. I wanted to ask him what exactly he's looking for cause sometimes I think he's sending mixed signals to me. I didnt ask cause after 5 drinks he might say something stupid so I decided it was time to go & I had my friend pick me up while he wanted to stay. Idk what to do right now. I kinda like him cause he's cute & interesting but 5 drinks seems too much at one time. And dumping his gf cause she wasnt fun kinda bothered me. What do u guys think about this?
Llakdknek Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 I don't think he's sending you mixed signals. It sounds like he wants to have fun and not be in a committed relationship.
Shaun-Dro Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 I don't think he's sending you mixed signals. It sounds like he wants to have fun and not be in a committed relationship. That's exactly what I wanted to say. By this douche-bag trying to slam 2 or more drinks down your throat shows his intentions. The dumping of the old girlfriend because she was boring solidifies what he's about. If I were you, drop this lowlife and move on before your emotions compromise you.
Imageiko Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 He's definitely just looking to "have fun" and going about it in a pretty immature way.
dasein Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Five drinks isn't too much in and of itself over a night out, but drinking them while with a girl under drinking age and then spilling his guts about his recent breakup is not the sign of a champ.
Author Sweetheartt Posted September 1, 2011 Author Posted September 1, 2011 Five drinks isn't too much in and of itself over a night out, but drinking them while with a girl under drinking age and then spilling his guts about his recent breakup is not the sign of a champ. Thanx everyone for helping out but he called me last night & wants to take me out friday. I told him Im not doing the bar thing & he was cool w/ it. He wanted to do the movie thing again but then I suggested the zoo. I havent been there since I was 12 so I think it could be fun. He said okay. Im gonna give him another chance cause my friend says he's really a cool guy but just might be trying to hard. Idk, maybe she knows better. Im not kissing him or anything yet. Im just gonna test him & see what happens.
KathyM Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Hey guys Im back lol. Um...the guy I went out w/ before called & we went out again last night to a sports bar. They dont check any ID in there so I was okay. He didnt try to kiss me this time I guess cause what happened last time at the movies but he tried to buy me drinks. I told him just 1 is fine but kept saying its no fun to have 1 drink cause he drank like 3-4 Anyway he wasnt drunk or anything so that was good but he kept putting his arm around me, complimenting on how good I smell yada yada & then I pulled away to use the bathroom so I can get my thoughts together. I felt okay to still be w/ him so I went back & chatted more. He revealed to me after like his 5th drink that he just broke up with some girl last month because she was no fun. Huh? Idk, this feels weird to me. I wanted to ask him what exactly he's looking for cause sometimes I think he's sending mixed signals to me. I didnt ask cause after 5 drinks he might say something stupid so I decided it was time to go & I had my friend pick me up while he wanted to stay. Idk what to do right now. I kinda like him cause he's cute & interesting but 5 drinks seems too much at one time. And dumping his gf cause she wasnt fun kinda bothered me. What do u guys think about this? The guy has a drinking problem. And it sounds like he's expecting you to put out by letting you know that he dumped someone because they "were no fun". This is not a good guy. Don't waste your time on losers or users.
Eddie Edirol Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 You never know what he means by "no fun" while he is trying to shove drinks down your throat. No fun could mean she was a homebody while he wanted to go out all the time, or it could mean that she didnt want and open relationship. No fun is too vague. But before all that, yeah...hes an alcoholic. If he needs 5 drinks to have fun, unless they were spread over a few hours, steer clear.
TigerCub Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 .... it sounds like he's expecting you to put out by letting you know that he dumped someone because they "were no fun". This is not a good guy. Don't waste your time on losers or users. Exactly! He was trying to send you message and tell you that unless you become "fun" and do what he likes, he's going to dump you. Don't give into a loser like him. what a douche!!
Easyguy14 Posted September 1, 2011 Posted September 1, 2011 Thanx everyone for helping out but he called me last night & wants to take me out friday. I told him Im not doing the bar thing & he was cool w/ it. He wanted to do the movie thing again but then I suggested the zoo. I havent been there since I was 12 so I think it could be fun. He said okay. Im gonna give him another chance cause my friend says he's really a cool guy but just might be trying to hard. Idk, maybe she knows better. Im not kissing him or anything yet. Im just gonna test him & see what happens. why are you giving him another chance? most of everyone on this thread gave you sound advice and you still wanna give it a go? let alone test him to see what he does? you're young and inexperienced sweetheart that's for sure. just about positive that this 3rd date is not gonna work out.
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