Misar7 Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 So some of you may have read my story from before...was with ex for 8 yrs. ..had problems but then past 3 months he was wanting to have a baby with me, and I said not without commitment..2 weeks after the last time we talked about it, he hooked up with some 22 yr old he met at the gas station, has been with her for 5 weeks now...found out last night HE GOT HER PREGNANT!!!! ARE YOU SERIOUS???? Like I have mentioned before also, his sister and my brother are married I am friends with this sister..there is no way for me to even escape seeing this all unfold!!! I am so sick over this! I have no idea what to do with myself!! How could he and how dumb is this girl to get pregnant that fast??
Perplexed81 Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 Sounds like he was trying to say what you wanted to hear to sleep with you and it backfired on him....obviously with this other chick he randomly met at a gas station....wow is right!
Perplexed81 Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 8 years is a long time, but this woman being pregnant has basically sealed the deal that you 2 won't get back together. This baby would always be a reminder and an issue if you ever decided to take him back. Unless this other woman has an abortion and he breaks up with her, I don't see you 2 ever getting back together.
Author Misar7 Posted August 31, 2011 Author Posted August 31, 2011 We were still sleeping together everything was fine so I thought and with him talking of wanting a baby, I thought he would commit to me..I was wrong! No I would never take him back now after everything we have been through!! I have been pregnant twice yrs ago with him and I lost both. I am so depressed over this.
Author Misar7 Posted August 31, 2011 Author Posted August 31, 2011 She works at the gas station. He don't have much money and well she don't either, no foundation at all for a baby. How careless and irresponsible can a 30 yr old man be.
ConfusedT Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 how terrible is that? 5 weeks. that is never going to work out. im so sorry, you must be so hurt! that's a sure-fire sign to get the hell over him and fast though. disgusting...
Author Misar7 Posted August 31, 2011 Author Posted August 31, 2011 Yes I am really disgusted! I am so hurt I can't believe he would do something like that..I have been depressed since he left not eating not sleeping, was just starting to eat some again and was trying to go out more..and now hearing this news last night..I am just torn apart cause here I was thinking he wanted a baby with me..I think he just lost his mind and wanted a baby and just knocked up the first girl he got with!
Dblock10 Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 i feel for you. i am so sorry to hear this, that is cruel and irresponsible. 8 years i mean. seriously. argh i would hate this. i hope you realise it says something though... you two werent for each other. everything i feel does happen for a reason and you can try and take comfort in that. like think about your parents.. if my dad hadnt got cheated on by the girl he was with before my mum... id never have been here! see what i mean
ludovico Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 sorry to hear about this Misar... it's one thing when our SO leaves us, it's another when they seek out another so soon after the break... your ex sounds like a real winner... i know it's hard to fathom at this stage but thank your lucky stars you didn't end up with him... life has a funny way of working out for us... stay strong...
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