cdm369 Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 I was wondering. Is it ok for me to have a well im gonna be like that attitude. I know it is kinda childish but what to do. I always been the guy to do what's right no matter what rules other people are playing by. Do unto others as they do to me? What?
StoneCold Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 I was wondering. Is it ok for me to have a well im gonna be like that attitude. I know it is kinda childish but what to do. I always been the guy to do what's right no matter what rules other people are playing by. Do unto others as they do to me? What? Are you asking others what the best way is to live your life? or are you looking for approval for how you currently live your life?
Kendal Pierce Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 I was wondering. Is it ok for me to have a well im gonna be like that attitude. I know it is kinda childish but what to do. I always been the guy to do what's right no matter what rules other people are playing by. Do unto others as they do to me? What? There is nothing really wrong if you like going your way and be considered radical, however there are consequences that goes with it like criticisms or being a marginalized person. Nonetheless, if you have a well-rounded personality I think you will be able to get through it.
Author cdm369 Posted August 31, 2011 Author Posted August 31, 2011 Always been too nice....give ....give ....give and never worry about getting back. Always been that way. Just feel out of balance. Im way to much give and no take I feel.
Turtles Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 I was wondering. Is it ok for me to have a well im gonna be like that attitude. I know it is kinda childish but what to do. I always been the guy to do what's right no matter what rules other people are playing by. Do unto others as they do to me? What? It's "ok" by whose standards? Mine? Yours? Some other random internet dude? Ultimately, you do what you want, just remember, if you turn into a cynical bastard, you are the one stuck with having to look at him in the mirror every morning. You can't always be the sucker but it's no reason to turn into a jerk.
GorillaTheater Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Always been too nice....give ....give ....give and never worry about getting back. Always been that way. Just feel out of balance. Im way to much give and no take I feel. Sounds like you're worried about "getting back" after all. Kind of like a covert contract between you and another person where you do something nice for them and they'll do something nice for you in return. The problem is the "covert" part of it, where you're the only person who knows the contract exists. You might do stuff for people expecting them to reciprocate, even if it's as little as them thinking you're a "great guy". But when you don't get anything back, you're pissed off. If you give, great. But do it strictly because you want to, not because you'll get anything in return.
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