Rhearn2 Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 (edited) Hi, I'm new to this form, my name is rob and I need some advice. Me and my "ex" were together for a year and a half, and one night she told me she thinks of me as a friend more as a boyfriend. Now I was caught up in the moment being a kiss ass and did everything and anything for her, never faught or anything because she was my first for everythig. Now all we do is sometimes fight and hookup when we drink, she wants to be friends because she told me she still wants me in her life and cares for Me but she says she don't have feelings andis over me. She dosent want to have a relationship because she looks of me as a friend. I just don't know what to do, I really love her and i dont want to let her go. Some one please give mensome advice to help get her back! Edited August 31, 2011 by Rhearn2
PelicanPete Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 Only reason she sees you as a friend is because there is another guy in the picture. Think about it. How would she see her current boyfriend as just a friend if she didn't have feelings for someone else to compare with? She's taking advantage of you by using you as a back up plan and an ego boost while shes trying to seal the deal with some other guy. Either she doesn't have the heart to tell you that she's with someone else, or she's enjoying reaping benefits from both sides. If your girlfriend ever says something along the lines of "I only see you as a friend", it means there's another guy playing her heart strings aside from you. People always want what they can't have, so a long term relationship that is facing challenges doesn't really stand a chance compared to the idea of starting over with someone you're feeling passionate about. You guys are broken up, so my advice would be to say your goodbyes and avoid further contact with her. If she really cared about you and wanted to get back together with you, she would be with you right now without question, and you wouldn't be broken up. Your ex has nothing left to offer you but heartache and bitterness, so I would advise you to start moving on and making changes to your life to keep you from relapsing. Change only hurts when you try to bring the past with you.
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