Buttercup84 Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 When my ex and I were first going out he always complimented me , couldn't keep his hands or eyes off me and then towards the end hardly touched me. Never complimented me anymore and would only have sex if he wanted to or was " sleep sexing " . I dressed up sexy , he was just " too tired " and he said I put on weight. he never seemed to like the way I dressed or did my hair . I started to feel so bad about myself . People tell me I am attractive etc but he just ruined my self-esteem . I can't remember the last time he told me I was pretty . He then had pictures of hot girls on his computer ( just models etc ) and it made me feel **** . Now I think he will get some beautiful new girlfriend .
Nohbody Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 and what do you think he is going to do and say to her once the new car smell wears off? That's right. Exactly the same thing. This guy sounds like a shallow douche bag. Don't be an idiot and take anything he says to heart. If you are unhappy with how you look, you can exercise more, try new makeup, clothing, hairstyles, etc. Go do something nice for yourself. Just because one guy stopped appreciating you (and took you for granted) doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. consider this your bitchslap.
Author Buttercup84 Posted August 31, 2011 Author Posted August 31, 2011 and what do you think he is going to do and say to her once the new car smell wears off? That's right. Exactly the same thing. This guy sounds like a shallow douche bag. Don't be an idiot and take anything he says to heart. If you are unhappy with how you look, you can exercise more, try new makeup, clothing, hairstyles, etc. Go do something nice for yourself. Just because one guy stopped appreciating you (and took you for granted) doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. consider this your bitchslap. Thanks for the bitch slap just having a ****ty day . He was very shallow . I joined the gym and lost a lot of weight . He was a douche as I was always small . Gotta get my mojo back
ConfusedT Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 exactly. if YOU dont like something, YOU change it. Who cares what that ******* had to say? you are a beautiful person INSIDE and that is what really matters. weird thing is i lost my self-worth and confidence about who i am, but i still feel beautiful on the exterior. guess that doesnt matter, bc no matter how pretty you are, if you're broken inside, the smiles not always real. i put it on a lot because in my job, it has a lot to do with physical appearance while dealing with the clients (no im not a stripper, lol) but i have to appear happy when the clients come in to discuss their accounts, even though id rather hide under my desk and be on LS crying. ha!
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