threeandme Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Been together 6 years, married 3 1/2. Have a 2 1/2 year old son and 1 year old twins (who were unplanned). Husband resents the twins and the impact they have had on his and our lives. I am a SAH mum. Husband (T) started counselling to find solutions how to deal with the babies however it has raised many other issues. Anyway my dilema. He has told me that he doesn't love me, nor has he ever and also that he has been visiting prostitutes monthly for the last 20 years, although he is giving up and hasn't been for 3 months! Our sex life has been pretty crap for ages as we are both so tired but he was still seeing them when sex was great for both of us so not sure that explains it. I just don't know what to do. I am exhausted with the kids with hs live in help (and a great mum) and just don't know how iwould copeon my own BUT is this enough reason to stay in a loveless and unhappy marriage. We were considering couples counselling before his revelations but now im nt sure its worth it? Link to post Share on other sites
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