ronald2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 you might try spokeo.com, pipl.com, beenverified.com and a few other sites that reverse track email address and usernames, as well as phone numbers. the search tools wade through social sites and dating sites as well. as far as the bank account goes, unless you have a current credit report or tax return where it should be listed, that will take some doing (or $$) to uncover. best of luck to you. if you need help with the above sites just let me know. That's right. Take advantage of the best background check service online as stated above, Polygraph tests are unreliable too. Be your own detective. Get some details and start from there. I once caught my partner cheating on me. What I did was snoop on his emails and got useful contact details. I totally did not have any idea who was the girl until I made use of the people search service. It helped me a lot because I was able to talk to the girl and yeah, they had an affair. Again, be your own private detective.
Woman In Blue Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 h finally let me view the bill today..There was nothing really suspicious going on, he is in sales and gets hundreds of calls from strange numbers so it took a while to sift through them. He said he was worried I would start calling all the numbers and call his customers, we did call one suspicious number and it was a customer, but honestly there was nothing there...The withdrawal slip I looked at again and there is no way it could be his as he was with me and the kids during that time frame so it may have been from a neighbor, i was ready to end it but I am beginning to think that maybe my imagination had gotten the better of me, I don't think he would cheat and it could be pp hormones affecting my judgement. baby is crying gotta go... I see you've managed to sweep things nice and neatly under the rug. When your gut starts screaming again (and it will) we'll be happy to help you. Again.
Author confusedan Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 I see you've managed to sweep things nice and neatly under the rug. When your gut starts screaming again (and it will) we'll be happy to help you. Again. well it is hard to think someone you love would hurt you so bad...that being said, now h is not sure if he wants to be married anymore because i doubted him...A day and a half good run is better than nothing, but I am at my wits end on what to do right now...I am so mad right now. How is it that I could find a condom wrapper and then an unopened box and want proof he isn't cheating and now I am the bad person now, these problems are much beyond infidelity. I am not going to stay in a marriage where I will forever feel guilt for having a normal human reaction to the evidence at hand. My health is suffering and my kids are suffering, I thought h would go to work today and things would finally feel semi-normal, but now he isn't sure he wants to remain in this marriage, and I am just getting too worn and tired going in these stupid circles with him.
Author confusedan Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 okay then knowledgable people, since h has left me in limbo, might as well get to the bottom of this. Since 6/15 he has had a smart phone, so he doesn't use the PC like at all, but there are a few things that happened prior to the smart phone, but he reformatted the PC from vista to 7, is there anyway to retrieve any old sites visited, history, emails etc..? I have a few dates that stick out, but I am at a loss on how to do this...I am not a hacker or techno buff...
speedster Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 sure there is. it's free. http://www.filehippo.com/download_recuva/ very simple to use un-delete tool. it has a simple scan or deep scan mode and does a decent job recovering files. you really need to be in there under his login or as an administrator to access files that are login-user specific. BUT.. chances are he has covered his tracks, if anything is going on. it's been my experience that the phone, since it is with them at all times, is the device with the secrets. and even then, as i said earlier, there are dozens of apps that hide contacts, numbers, text messages, etc. if he's a savvy user you are not going to find anything.
magnus mateo Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 . No not with Sprint...I am in a tough spot now I think there have been many signs. Condoms on 2 seperate occasions...I note that said I love you a year ago in his pocket. The chick at his work he was too friendly with quit the day after I went to his work after I discovered the condom wrapper. She isn't fb friends with him anymore...oh he deleted all phone calls august 5th I found the wrapper on the 3 rd... 1. Condoms on two separate occasions 2. I love you note 3. Inappropriate behavior with women You have good reason to wonder. He would wonder too, if the shoe was on the other foot. Set up surveillance to check things out. But, just the fact that you would need to do this, says something about the health of the marriage. You need closure to this issue. But, don't expect closure to end your worries. I hope you get this worked out.
Kidd Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 I spent $200 on a GPS tracker to place in my wife's car (and I had far less reason than you) and caught her at a hotel at 10pm when she was supposed to be working. It worked the first time. I was devastated but completely relieved that I wasn't paranoid or quite frankly, at fault for the state of the marriage. Find a spy store.
Author confusedan Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 i know the truth now, thank you spokeo.com...He hid it for a long time, it was not much physical according to him just a few times, but the EA had been months in the making, it hurts to know I was home alone recovering from giving birth while he was out, but told me everything after i checked over one of the numbers he said was a work buddy, it was really her number, and he will call the OW tomorrow...It was the chick from work that i suspected...Still in shock, but really really relieved knowing i am not crazy...Not sure where to go from here, but at least I can begin to have some closure...
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 I'm sorry to say this, but stuff "according to him" is probably going to be nothing but lies. I doubt that he has any intention of telling you everything. You got him cornered so he had to confess to something. Just enough to get you off his back. I'm not sure how couples work through these things, but I know that some do.
Author confusedan Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 I'm sorry to say this, but stuff "according to him" is probably going to be nothing but lies. I doubt that he has any intention of telling you everything. You got him cornered so he had to confess to something. Just enough to get you off his back. I'm not sure how couples work through these things, but I know that some do. I agree which is why I am going to talk to the ow and hear her side to see if things match up or not....
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