D86 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 I've been dating this girl for about 14-months. She thinks I'm the love of her life and her soulmate, she wants to marry me and have my babies and all that. She is the biggest drama queen you've ever met and the most immature person you've ever met (she's 25 but acts 14), goes absolutely psycho for the smallest things. Sex was great, but I just couldn't put up with all the relationship drama (worse than Ronnie/Sammy on jersey shore. We've had like 10 breakups before this, but she always convince me to come back), so I break up with her for real finally. Now she calls me crying hysterically every 5 minutes, says she would do anything, then says things like "I wish you would die and burn in hell", and then "I wish I would just die, my life is meaningless without you" etc etc. I really dont know what to do about her, she doesnt understand when I say, "sorry I don't want to be with you". She really doesn't get it. Should I just ignore her 100%? I still care about her and would be OK with being friends, but I know she can't and if she sees me with another girl, she would go even more psycho. Unfortunately, we've had sex since breaking up. I tried to go out with her as "friends", but she was able to seduce me and my horniness got the best of me so I couldn't resist. After that, she was even more annoying than ever, I think she thought just because we had sex that means we're back together, which is the last thing I want. I hate seeing her suffer like this, but I just don't know what I can do at this point. She tells me I'm the only one who can help her. She's been partying like every day and getting drunk, even blacking out a few times. I am very worried, with me she didn't act like this, it makes me feel its my fault. I think she is trying to use this tactic to make me feel sorry for her and guilt trip me into coming back to her. She makes me feel like she will continue her self-destructing ways unless I come back to her. Any input would be appreciated! 1
Professor X Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 What she does with her life is none of your concern anymore. And if you wanna be a good friend to her and you care for her than let her go, completely, don't befriend her, you will just cause her extra pain by forcing her to see you. Just disappear and at best, as one of her friends to take care of her. You made a choice, now stick to it, don't get manipulated back into a RS with her.
Author D86 Posted August 30, 2011 Author Posted August 30, 2011 It just seems very cold and rude to completely ignore someone when they are crying, pleading, and begging. I hope we can still be friends after a few months or however long it takes her to get over me, because I do still care about her and it doesn't seem right to just never talk again.
Anela Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Why did you post this as well? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3598093 Did you post it in order to post a link for her to read?
Author D86 Posted August 30, 2011 Author Posted August 30, 2011 Yup. Because she wasn't listening to me and I made a post for her to get other people to tell her she should stop calling/txting me every 5 minutes and I was going to email her the link. I thought it would help her I dunno.
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