ced77 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 I have been with my boyfriend for over two years and lived together for ove one. 3 Weeks ago out of the blue he wanted space! A week passed and we met up the following weekend and despite him hlding my hand and cuddling me I was given two options. The first was that I could end it and that would be my choice, the second was that he could have a month on his own to clear his head. That is the option I chose but it has been terrible. The next day I asked him what he would have done if I had chosen to end things and he said he hadn't thought of that. From what I understand that is exactly what he has done, he has stayed at home, gone to work, gone to his mum's and gone to the gym and that is it. I have aske him if he misses me and he says he does. Everyday he asks what I am doing, who I am with and where I am which in some ways is not his business but I tell him as I don't want to play games and have nothing to hide. We have arranged to meet up this saturday and I am hoping this will be a good chance to spend some time together without too much heavy talk and tears! I really want to resolve things and I am prepared to take things step by step but could really do with some outside opinions / ideas
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