larry121 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 ok here is my story. i have a housemate and we have a very strong connection but she is taken, the other night we got drunk and we kissed and played around in bed her bf is away anyway she msged me today saying she is getting drunk and then said: "you know this cant turn into anything right? you knwo im leaving for another state and im not the one to cheat" does this mean im a one the saide kind of a deal? L.
RainDown Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 ok here is my story. i have a housemate and we have a very strong connection but she is taken, the other night we got drunk and we kissed and played around in bed her bf is away anyway she msged me today saying she is getting drunk and then said: "you know this cant turn into anything right? you knwo im leaving for another state and im not the one to cheat" does this mean im a one the saide kind of a deal? L. I think all it means is your housemate is not good girlfriend material for anyone.
Woman In Blue Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 does this mean im a one the saide kind of a deal? Jeez, it took a whole minute to decipher this last mess of a sentence. Yes, you're her action on the side and you know you'll take it because men will pretty much take anything that falls in their laps. Give that girl a few beers and she's anybody's play toy for the night. You got a good catch, there.
whichwayisup Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 ok here is my story. i have a housemate and we have a very strong connection but she is taken, the other night we got drunk and we kissed and played around in bed her bf is away anyway she msged me today saying she is getting drunk and then said: "you know this cant turn into anything right? you knwo im leaving for another state and im not the one to cheat" does this mean im a one the saide kind of a deal? L. It means nothing. A connection, an evening of fooling around, with the help of booze, she got caught up in it all and now she's told you nothing else is going to happen and she doesn't want to take this any further. It's that simple. She has a right to change her mind so you need to accept that and let this go.
fooled once Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 I think all it means is your housemate is not good girlfriend material for anyone. Agree! It means nothing. A connection, an evening of fooling around, with the help of booze, she got caught up in it all and now she's told you nothing else is going to happen and she doesn't want to take this any further. It's that simple. She has a right to change her mind so you need to accept that and let this go. See, I took the girls response to mean "I have no problems messing around with you, but just know I do not want anything serious - just to have a good time". And considering she was texting him when she was again drinking, to me it was an invitation, but a reminder that it won't be more than sex. I would let your roommate know and show him the text message. Why should he waste anymore time on her.
Emme Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 IMO---It means; I'm horny, you're available, my bf is gone so do me please. Nothing more. Ding-ding-ding! That is the correct answer.
MissBee Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 I do not think you should engage in anymore drunk trysts with her.... If you can't at least "hook up" sober, then maybe you shouldn't even bother. If the only time she thinks of calling you up is when she's drunk....that's questionable.... I don't know about your "strong connection" but something leads me to believe that it may not be so strong, so much as strongly muddled by inebriation and the potential for it to turn into a sloppy mess seems a lot greater....however, I suppose if you want a drunken shag then it's fine (please remember to properly wear a condom in your drunken state) but if you expect something more I'd advise against it.
Author larry121 Posted August 31, 2011 Author Posted August 31, 2011 today she came home with the bf and well she cant even look at me, she keeps ignoring me if im the garage she'll use the front door to go out not say bye , she said she cant do it anymore cause her bf is her last tie to her fiance who died. i think its more trouble than its worth. L.
RainDown Posted August 31, 2011 Posted August 31, 2011 today she came home with the bf and well she cant even look at me, she keeps ignoring me if im the garage she'll use the front door to go out not say bye , she said she cant do it anymore cause her bf is her last tie to her fiance who died. i think its more trouble than its worth. L. Interesting. It's not going to be pretty when her bf finds that out. And I agree; definitely more trouble than it's worth.
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