Rant - He emailed me again ! I have to go NC again...aaaaaaahh

[Buttercup84]

So yesterday my ex contacted me via email telling me what to do witht he lease form he sent me via mail to sign for the real estate agent. I knew he was sending it and was pissed because I was on day 3 of nc and feeling good for once.We had a bit of a polite chit chat.

 

 

Anyway I check my email and there is another one ! I am just getting over yesterday and feeling sad still.He was asking if I could pay some of the power bill that came . Fair enough , it was from when I was still living there.

 

He has to pay all the bills and rent now and I live at home so am ok. I said I will pay my half.

 

After that , as much as it hurts I do not want contact. I love him so I don't want to see him struggle but in the end , he dumped me and we could have made this work.

 

He said he wants me to spoil myself for once with my pay. Argh !

[Nohbody]

Financial entanglements make NC difficult. Just keep the business side short and sweet, and don't go into personal stuff. You don't have to start over as long as you didn't use the message as a means of trying to get back with this person or to express feelings to them.

 

But that's just my opinion, some might disagree.

 

Keep it up, you're doing fine.

[Buttercup84]

Hi Nohbody

 

Thank you for all your comments , they always cheer me up x