marcus1980 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 A woman that I'm seeing has been asking me about my virginity (When/how I lost it). I wanna tell her the truth (I was 21) but I've got a feeling that it might weird her out. What do ya'll think? Are 21 year old male virgins attractive or just...sad? Please be honest.
Cypress25 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Sounds normal to me. 21 is very young, that's not too old to be a virgin. A lot of kids have sex too young; it's nice to hear about a guy who actually waited until he was an adult! I'm a woman and I waited until I was 25 to lose my virginity. I had the opportunity from age 18 but I wasn't ready yet. If she's weirded out by the idea of a 21-year-old virgin, then she's got issues of her own. Despite popular belief, not all teenagers are having sex!
AHardDaysNight Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 I am almost a 29 year old virgin. And yes, I feel uncomfortable about it. But this really shouldn't matter. It's girls like this that give girls a bad name!
AmEricanWomann Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Not everyone is having sex when they're teenagers. 21 is definitely not unusually old to lose your virginity. She'll probably just think you're totally normal.
AHardDaysNight Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Yeah, being 21 and a virgin is normal. Being almost 30 and a virgin, however, is abnormal. No matter how much I try to deny it.
Feelin Frisky Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 You can't lose by being honest, especially if you're going to fess up to being 21. Someone who'd fault you for that is suspect.
OnyxSnowfall Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 I actually appreciate men who haven't been promiscuous... 21 isn't too old. I really don't see the big deal. My current boyfriend had been with one girl, one time, before me (and the time span between her and I was a little over 10 years). I didn't mind that he was sexually inexperienced... if anything, I became more endeared to his values and beliefs and... he also really had some very creative ideas roaming about, having stewed for so long
AHardDaysNight Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Yeah, that's true. Virgins are better in bed, simply because we're so sexually deprived that we're hungry for it. Players get it all the time, so they always suck! LOL
somedude81 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 A woman that I'm seeing has been asking me about my virginity (When/how I lost it). I wanna tell her the truth (I was 21) but I've got a feeling that it might weird her out. What do ya'll think? Are 21 year old male virgins attractive or just...sad? Please be honest. I'm confused. From your name, I'm assuming that you are 31. Saying that you lost your virginity at 21 means that it happened 10 years ago. Why are you afraid that she will get weirded out because you lost it when you were 21? A 21 year old virgin doesn't mean anything. It doesn't start to become an issue till the guy is 24+ and still a virgin. That means he missed a couple of milestones growing up. No offense to the older virgins.
AHardDaysNight Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Wait, you lost it almost 10 years ago? Who cares! What about those of us who are almost your age, and haven't lost it? Dude, she's not going to care when you lost it...just that you lost it! Somedude is correct, this is very misleading.
OnyxSnowfall Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Yeah, that's true. Virgins are better in bed, simply because we're so sexually deprived that we're hungry for it. Players get it all the time, so they always suck! LOL :lmao:... it is certainly true IME. At least with him (I have been with younger male virgins, it was not the same... I think there's something to the older sexual inexperienced ones ). He's the best lover I've ever had though... and I've been with some very "experienced" men heh. If there is any stigma about older male virgins, it should be that they are likely to unleash some very delicious and crazy things ... and hopefully they have the maturity (or in my case, eagerness) to accept gentle guidance into honing their techniques. I think the learning and beholding and appreciation of the woman's body at that point just comes naturally though Of course, after years, when the "satisfaction" occurs, things change, too.
mike1988 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 I was a 20 year old virgin, met an older woman online, began talking to her on video calls and the phone, met up and had sex. It was terrible. My second time was better, also met this woman who was even older online. My third time came in person from a Spanish girl who happened to like redheads. Of course she wasn't hot, but she was cute and I took it to town and to this day she is the only woman I ever 1. Met in person and had sex with and 2. Came as a result of sex/her body instead of my own hands. I hope maybe someday I can meet another but I've given up on dating since it's hopeless.
AHardDaysNight Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Why do you think Edward from Twilight was a 107 year old virgin? And everyone from teenage girls to soccer moms are going crazy for it? It's because someone who has some sense of control is sexy. In an age where sex is thrown in our faces, from every direction, a 107 year old virgin is kind of attractive. That being said, I'm not going to wait until I'm old and grey before I lose it.
OnyxSnowfall Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Why do you think Edward from Twilight was a 107 year old virgin? And everyone from teenage girls to soccer moms are going crazy for it? It's because someone who has some sense of control is sexy. In an age where sex is thrown in our faces, from every direction, a 107 year old virgin is kind of attractive. That being said, I'm not going to wait until I'm old and grey before I lose it. LoL... it could be. I've never read twilight nor watched it. But yes, self-discipline is very sexy.
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