trueluV Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 can guys help me out, please? so, how can i know if a guy's interested in me, or if he's just a friendly guy and he's just being friendly to me? i've gone out with this guy many times, once a week in the past few weeks, but not really sure if it was a date or not. he just emailed and called me out of the blue and asked me if i wanted to grab a bite, so we met up a few times. he's very talkative and we laugh a lot, spend at least 4-5 hours each time. but then, he has never made any move-not even a hug. also, we have never brought up other guy/girl in the talk either... this is very confusing... so if he's on a bit of a shy side (for initiating physical contact), what would be the signs he's interested in me?
somedude81 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Odds are I'd say he's interested. If the situation was reversed, and you were the guy and the other person was a girl, then it would be almost impossible to tell. Here's a quick and easy to tell if he's interested in you or not. Hi calls you up, "Hey trueluV lets go grab a bite to eat and watch a movie." You: "Sure, is this a date?" Tada! His answer will tell you.
thatone Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 why don't you kiss him. confidence in women is attractive just like is in men.
runner Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 i've gone out with this guy many times, once a week in the past few weeks, but not really sure if it was a date or not. he just emailed and called me out of the blue and asked me if i wanted to grab a bite, so we met up a few times. he's very talkative and we laugh a lot, spend at least 4-5 hours each time. but then, he has never made any move-not even a hug. also, we have never brought up other guy/girl in the talk either... by this alone, i'd say he just enjoys your company but isn't pursuing you.
Author trueluV Posted August 30, 2011 Author Posted August 30, 2011 by this alone, i'd say he just enjoys your company but isn't pursuing you. yes, that's why it's confusing. can guys "just enjoy the company" with their female friends? he doesn't bring any girl topic up either, which is quite normal between friends, so this one is confusing. i posted a thread earlier that we've been on 10 dates (not sure if it was a date or just hanging out) and the guy is not making a move. so time has passed since that then and we met up two more times- fancy dinner with drinks. i could think this guy is interested if he let's say called or texted me afterwards, but he doesn't do that. he disappears, and one week later he suddenly emails me and asks to go out... so confusing!
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