bailey Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 A guy I'm attracted to invited me to a concert and dinner. Dinner was beforehand and it was just the two of us. He insisted on paying, even though I told him I'd get it since he bought the concert tickets. At the concert , we met up with about 3 of his friends. There wasn't too much talking, as it was a concert and his friends went there separate ways afterwards. At the end of the night, we parted at his house where my car was parked. I gave him a big hug and told him thank you and that I had a wonderful time. I wonder if he thinks I am uninterested because I didn't attempt a kiss, but neither did he. It gets even stickier since I work with the guy. I don't want to presume he likes me, because he may just be thinking friends. I would like to say my action spoke loudly-- I was dancing and a smile never left my face all night. We have been out 2 other times with mutual friends, but this is the first time alone. Help a sister out if you have any opinion. I love advice from 3rd parties! Thanks!
befuddled11 Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 Based on my experiences with dating, it sounds like a date to me! But don't assume that, because then it could be awkward, seeing how you work with him. The "no kiss" thing doesn't mean anything, and shouldn't necessarily be misinterpreted by him to say you're not interested. Many people don't kiss on the first date....I generally never have....afterall, I barely know the guy. Sure, the guy may seem nice..but who doesn't on the first date? Does that mean I know enough about them to know that I'd want to kiss them? Generally, No. The hug thing is just fine. It's what I always do. Maybe it could be your turn, now...to ask him out. Just be casual about it, JUST IN CASE he's gunshy or is just wanting to be "good friends." By asking him out, you'll send the message that you DID enjoy spending time with him.......which is important......and then, the more time you spend together, the greater the chances he'll fess up to what he sees/wants with you. Good luck, and keep us posted!!
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