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Hi ppl..i would like to share my story with you all..ok so I had met a guy ard 9 months back in nov 2010 as a marriage prospect..we hit off instantly and decided to take it further.. it was a long distance relation..different countries as he worked in another country..so we would hardly get weekends to talk..n met once in 2-3 months..now things were going great between us but he was d kind who wanted to take things slow n take his time in taking a decision..n i was not comfortable with it..yet i gave him 7 months to decide..but in between i was suffering from mood swings(it is something which happens to me quite often) and also v had argument once twice in between these 7 months..now before we were suppose to meet in june 2011 i happened to tell him something which annoyed him n he was back to square one saying he wants more time in deciding..n i was sure that i dont want to give dis relation more time as i had got a lot attached already..i decided to call it off though he was like v can take more time n in between also can look for more people to see if v can find a good match but also keep each other as option which dint go well with me..so i called it off..

but within one month i realized i am missing him already a lot..so asked to give the relation another chance..he said ok but again said the same thing which i wrote above adding it may take time to know whether v can adjsut with each other nature n if v can then how long it wil take he s not sure..this guy s not very expressive so everythin about him is a mystery..its been 2 months now v havent spoken to each other..he dint call me neither have i..i dont knw whether there is any hope ahead..not sure if he wil come back..i m finding it hard to forget him n wish that he comes back but being an inexpressive guy i m not sure whether he wil approach me again..i feel wont it come in between his ego..i m confused..please help

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